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2. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Chapter Presentation Transparencies Bellringers Image and Activity Bank Resources Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. Chapter Menu Brain Food Video Quiz Quotes About Character

3. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “When the character of a man is not clear to you, look at his friends.” —Japanese Proverb

4. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Building Responsible Relationships Chapter 19

5. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Building Responsible Relationships Contents Section 1 Responsible Relationships Section 2 Benefits of Abstinence Section 3 Coping with Pressures Chapter 19

6. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 1 Responsible Relationships Bellringer List five positive characteristics to look for in a dating partner. Identify two of these five characteristics that are most important to you, and explain why. Chapter 19

7. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 1 Responsible Relationships Objectives State why teen relationships are important. List positive characteristics to look for in a dating partner. Describe appropriate dating behavior. State two things you can do to maintain a healthy relationship with your partner. Chapter 19

8. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 1 Responsible Relationships Teen Relationships Are Important Developing relationships with others of your age is an important part of forming your identity. Dating provides friendship, companionship, and support, and allows you to explore characteristics you might want in a future spouse. Chapter 19

9. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 1 Responsible Relationships Teen Relationships Are Important Engaging in sexual activity poses risks to your emotional and physical health. Refraining from sexual activity helps create and sustain a healthy relationship. Mutual respect is of key importance in dating. Chapter 19

10. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 1 Responsible Relationships Finding the Right Person A good friend or dating partner: Chapter 19 is unselfish treats others well is tolerant and respectful has morals and values similar to yours is fun to be with respects himself or herself You should also try to be the kind of person that you and others respect.

11. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 1 Responsible Relationships Finding the Right Person When choosing a friend or a dating partner, you should try to avoid people who: Chapter 19 are selfish are abusive are inconsiderate are jealous hurt you physically or emotionally don’t respect your morals and values make you feel badly about yourself

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13. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 1 Responsible Relationships Appropriate Dating Behavior Dating in groups allows you to get to know each other without the pressures of being alone. Treat the other person the way you want to be treated. Be on time, courteous, respectful. Follow the rules your parents and your date’s parents have for your dating. Chapter 19

14. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 1 Responsible Relationships Appropriate Dating Behavior If you are upset while recovering from a breakup, try to focus your emotional energy on finding ways to be happy again. Stay in touch with your friends and do things you enjoy doing. Chapter 19

15. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 2 Benefits of Abstinence Bellringer List some risks of being sexually active. Chapter 19

16. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 2 Benefits of Abstinence Objectives Define the term abstinence. Describe the health benefits of teen sexual abstinence. Describe the emotional and social benefits of teen sexual abstinence. Name two ways abstinence can help teens achieve their goals. Chapter 19

17. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 2 Benefits of Abstinence What Is Abstinence? Teen relationships should focus on emotional intimacy, not sexual intimacy. Abstinence is the conscious decision not to participate in sexual activity and the skills to support that decision. A sexually transmitted disease (STD) is an infectious disease that is spread by sexual contact. Avoiding the risk of STDs is just one of the many benefits of abstinence. Chapter 19

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19. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 3 Coping with Pressures Bellringer List ways that teens are pressured into becoming sexually active. Chapter 19

20. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 3 Coping with Pressures Objectives Describe the two types of pressure to become sexually active. Discuss how to verbally and nonverbally refuse sexual advances. Describe protective factors that help teens remain abstinent. List risk factors that can cause teens to become sexually active. Discuss nonsexual ways to show someone that you care. Chapter 19

21. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 3 Coping with Pressures Pressures to Be Sexually Active Internal pressure is an impulse a person feels to engage in a behavior. External pressure is pressure a person feels from another person or from a group to engage in a behavior. Chapter 19

22. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 3 Coping with Pressures Setting Personal Limits Setting personal limits can help you stay true to your commitment to be abstinent. When setting personal limits, you can commit not only to being abstinent but also to avoiding situations that could lead to sexual activity. Tell your partner when you begin dating that you have made a commitment to remain sexually abstinent. Chapter 19

23. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 3 Coping with Pressures Avoiding Pressure Situations Identify situations that could lead to sexual activity. Avoid drinking alcohol or taking illegal drugs. Look for dating partners who share your values about abstinence. Chapter 19

24. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 3 Coping with Pressures Refusing Verbally and Nonverbally To get out of a pressure situation: Chapter 19 Clearly identify the problem. State your thoughts and feelings. Say what you would like to happen instead. Explain the results if the change in plans is made. Explain the results if the change is not made.

25. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 3 Coping with Pressures Refusing Verbally and Nonverbally To get out of a pressure situation: Chapter 19 Match what you say with your body language. If your date keeps pressuring you, stop dating that person.

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28. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 3 Coping with Pressures Protective Factors and Risk Factors A protective factor is anything that decreases the likelihood of someone engaging in a risky behavior. Protective factors for sexual activity include a good relationship with parents, being involved in school and the community, and having a commitment to abstinence. Risk factors for sexual activity include alcohol and drugs, dating older people, and sexually active friends. Chapter 19

29. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Section 3 Coping with Pressures Building Self Esteem Chapter 19 A healthy self-esteem helps you resist pressure to do things you know are unhealthy. The next slide reminds you of ways to build your self- esteem.

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31. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Saying No Practicing your refusal skills makes it easier to remain abstinent. The next slide provides a review of your refusal skills. Chapter 19 Section 3 Coping with Pressures

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33. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Making GREAT Decisions Use the Making GREAT Decisions model, shown on the next slide, to make good choices. Chapter 19 Section 3 Coping with Pressures

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35. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Building Resiliency Feeling pressure from someone you trust can be very stressful. Resilient people continue to be optimistic when life gets tough. The next slide provides eight skills to help you build your resiliency. Chapter 19 Section 3 Coping with Pressures

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37. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Click below to watch the Brain Food Video Quiz that accompanies this chapter. You may stop the video at any time by pressing the Esc key. Brain Food Video Quiz

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39. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “If you stand straight, do not fear a crooked shadow.” —Chinese Proverb

40. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “One falsehood spoils a thousand truths.” —African Proverb

41. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “A man cannot be comfortable without his own approval.” —Mark Twain

42. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Our reverence is good for nothing if it does not begin with self-respect.” —Oliver Wendell Holmes

43. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “When the character of a man is not clear to you, look at his friends.” —Japanese Proverb

44. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “What lies behind us and what lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson

45. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “A good name, like good will, is got by many actions and lost by one.” —Lord Jeffrey

46. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “To enjoy the things we ought and to hate the things we ought has the greatest bearing on excellence of character.” —Aristotle

47. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “He that respects himself is safe from others; He wears a coat of mail that none can pierce.” —Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

48. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “The reputation of a thousand years may be determined by the conduct of one hour.” —Japanese Proverb

49. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Dreams are the touchstones of our character.” —Henry David Thoreau

50. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “A man’s character is his fate.” —Heraclitus

51. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Character is that which reveals moral purpose, exposing the class of things a man chooses and avoids.” —Aristotle

52. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “What you do speaks so loud that I cannot hear what you say.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson

53. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Abstinence is the surety of temperance.” —Plato

54. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “This above all, to thine own self be true/And it must follow, as the night the day/ Thou canst not then be false to any man.” —William Shakespeare

55. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “No change of circumstances can repair a defect of character.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson

56. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Men acquire a particular quality by constantly acting a particular way... you become just by performing just actions, temperate by performing temperate actions, brave by performing brave actions.” —Aristotle

57. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “The way to gain a good reputation is to endeavor to be what you desire to appear.” —Socrates

58. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Do what you know and perception is converted into character.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson

59. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Rather fail with honor than succeed by fraud.” —Sophocles

60. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Character is higher than intellect.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson

61. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “To know what is right and not do it is the worst cowardice.” —Confucius

62. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “It takes less time to do a thing right, than it does to explain why you did it wrong.” —Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

63. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Nature magically suits a man to his fortunes, by making them the fruit of his character.” —Ralph Waldo Emerson

64. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “That soul that can be honest is the only perfect man.” —John Fletcher

65. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “One does evil enough when one does nothing good.” —German Proverb

66. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “There is no pillow so soft as a clear conscience.” —French Proverb

67. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Don't forget to love yourself.” —Soren Kierkegaard

68. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Character is the indelible mark that determines the only true value of all people and all their work.” —Orison Swett Marden

69. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “What we think or what we believe is, in the end, of little consequence. The only thing of consequence is what we do.” —John Ruskin

70. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Fame is vapor, popularity an accident, riches take wing, and only character endures.” —Horace Greeley

71. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “You can easily judge the character of a man by how he treats those who can do nothing for him.” —James D. Miles

72. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Right is right, even if everyone is against it; and wrong is wrong, even if everyone is for it.” —William Penn

73. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Our deeds determine us, as much as we determine our deeds.” —George Eliot

74. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Character is the result of two things: mental attitude and the way we spend our time.” —Elbert Hubbard

75. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “A man without character is like a ship without a rudder.” —Karl G. Maeser

76. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Character is much easier kept than recovered.” —Thomas Paine

77. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Character is power.” —Booker T. Washington

78. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “An individual step in character training is to put responsibility on the individual.” —Robert Baden-Powell

79. Copyright © by Holt, Rinehart and Winston. All rights reserved. ResourcesChapter menu Quotes About Character “Character is a by-product; it is produced in the great manufacture of daily duty.” —Woodrow T. Wilson