1. Husband and Wife The Creator’s Choice - Family Wife Submits Husband Loves Christ Christ Loves Church Submits Husband Wife Church God chooses women to show their husbands how to submit and men to show their wives how to love The Divine Love Story

2. Husband and Wife The Creator’s Choice - Family (1Pe 2:21) for to this ye were called, because Christ also did suffer for you, leaving to you an example, that ye may follow his steps, (1Pe 2:22) who did not commit sin, nor was guile found in his mouth, (1Pe 2:23) who being reviled--was not reviling again, suffering-- was not threatening, and was committing himself to Him who is judging righteously, (1Pe 3:1) In like manner, the wives, be ye subject to your own husbands, that even if certain are disobedient to the word, through the conversation of the wives, without the word, they may be won, (1Pe 3:2) having beheld your pure behaviour in fear, Example of Christ

3. Husband and Wife The Creator’s Choice - Family Example of Christ (1Pe 3:3) whose adorning--let it not be that which is outward, of plaiting of hair, and of putting around of things of gold, or of putting on of garments, (1Pe 3:4) but--the hidden man of the heart, in the incorruptible thing of the meek and quiet spirit, which is, before God, of great price, (1Pe 3:5) for thus once also the holy women who did hope on God, were adorning themselves, being subject to their own husbands, (1Pe 3:6) as Sarah was obedient to Abraham, calling him `sir,' of whom ye did become daughters, doing good, and not fearing any terror. (1Pe 3:7) The husbands, in like manner, dwelling with them, according to knowledge, as to a weaker vessel--to the wife-- imparting honour, as also being heirs together of the grace of life, that your prayers be not hindered.

4. Husband and Wife The Creator’s Choice - Family Example of Christ  Silence When Insulted and Abused Verbally  Non Retaliative In Sufferings  Complete Trust In God’s Righteous Judgment

5. Husband and Wife The Creator’s Choice - Family God’s Expectations Of Women  Pure And Good Behaviour  Focus On Inner Spiritual Beauty Over External Attractiveness  Meekness and Quietness Of Spirit

6. Husband and Wife The Creator’s Choice - Family God’s Expectations Of Men  Good Knowledge Of Their Women  Show Honour To Their Women  Realise The Implication Of Their Action Against Their Wives

7. Husband and Wife The Creator’s Choice - Family Regarding Sex (1Co 7:1) Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. (1Co 7:2) Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. (1Co 7:3) Let the husband render unto the wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. (1Co 7:4) The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. (1Co 7:5) Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.

8. (1Co 6:15) Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid. (1Co 6:16) What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh. (1Co 6:17) But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit. (1Co 6:18) Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. (1Co 6:19) What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? (1Co 6:20) For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's. Husband and Wife The Creator’s Choice - Family Regarding Sex

9. The Creator’s Choice - Family Let’s Talk about It Example of Christ: Why the example of Christ is important for a couple? Is it practical to follow His example? What should we do to follow His example is a marriage? Expectations on Women: If men are sensual beings why should women focus on inner beauty? How can one attain inner peace and quietness to live a pure and holy life for men and women? Expectations on Men: What does it mean to know women by knowledge? What does a weaker vessel in a woman mean? What does honour mean to a man for his wife? Behavioural Expectations Of A Couple

10. The Creator’s Choice - Family Pillow Talk Example of Christ: Discuss and pray as a couple on how you can follow the example of Christ in your marriage. Expectations on Women: Openly discuss the challenges and issues faced in this area. What can your man do to help you to fulfil the expectations from God. Expectations on Men: Openly discuss the challenges and issues faced in this area. What can your woman do to help you to fulfil the expectations from God. Behavioural Expectations Of A Couple