1. Welcome to Shidduch Coaches 3 Week Workshops - Singles Relationship Readiness Training Workshop # 1 -Relationship Readiness Quiz -Limiting Belief Exercises -Perfect Day Workshop # 1 -Relationship Readiness Quiz -Limiting Belief Exercises -Perfect Day

2. Take the Relationship Readiness Quiz Now!  Relax and answer each question in total honesty and carefully.  Take 10 - 15 minutes for the entire quiz. I am going to time you. The time now is……  Did everyone complete the quiz? How do you feel now?  This is your first time really experiencing what we are doing here. We will take this quiz again at the end of the 3rd workshop.  Relax and answer each question in total honesty and carefully.  Take 10 - 15 minutes for the entire quiz. I am going to time you. The time now is……  Did everyone complete the quiz? How do you feel now?  This is your first time really experiencing what we are doing here. We will take this quiz again at the end of the 3rd workshop.

3. What are Limiting Beliefs?  Limiting Beliefs are awareness + choice + action = positive change. They are incidents and things that happened to you as a child. This is a viewpoint from that childhood upbringing that you have in your mind now. You can become aware of who you are today, but make changes for the future. Who will you be tomorrow?  Do you often hear a person’s voice in your head telling you something negative about you that you actually believe such as “you are not pretty or no one wants a fat girl for a wife”? You are not a bright man, don’t bother getting married cause nobody will marry you. (Recognizable Voice) It is called the inner critic.  {Just step briefly with everyone into their past, and get them to think about who they are and where they are now.} They should just think about what happened to them, but what they can do now to change their behaviors for the future. Let them relax and think for a moment. They can write down their fears, experiences and let go.  Limiting Beliefs are awareness + choice + action = positive change. They are incidents and things that happened to you as a child. This is a viewpoint from that childhood upbringing that you have in your mind now. You can become aware of who you are today, but make changes for the future. Who will you be tomorrow?  Do you often hear a person’s voice in your head telling you something negative about you that you actually believe such as “you are not pretty or no one wants a fat girl for a wife”? You are not a bright man, don’t bother getting married cause nobody will marry you. (Recognizable Voice) It is called the inner critic.  {Just step briefly with everyone into their past, and get them to think about who they are and where they are now.} They should just think about what happened to them, but what they can do now to change their behaviors for the future. Let them relax and think for a moment. They can write down their fears, experiences and let go.

4. Limiting Belief Exercises  Fill out the Pie Chart with the areas in your life: I.e. Career, Job, Love Life, Family, Friends, Finances, Social life etc.  Rate Each area of your life 1- 10.  10% = Highest 1% Lowest  Then do the other exercises. Any questions?  Fill out the Pie Chart with the areas in your life: I.e. Career, Job, Love Life, Family, Friends, Finances, Social life etc.  Rate Each area of your life 1- 10.  10% = Highest 1% Lowest  Then do the other exercises. Any questions?

5. Visioning  Everyone should think about what kind of partner they can imagine being with for the rest of their life.  Nobody should hide behind their childhood programming or thought process. As an adult, you should be ready to let go of your issues from the past and move forward with your goals and dreams.  Everyone should think about what kind of partner they can imagine being with for the rest of their life.  Nobody should hide behind their childhood programming or thought process. As an adult, you should be ready to let go of your issues from the past and move forward with your goals and dreams.

6. Perfect Day #1  How do you plan to have your perfect day with your future partner?  Dream big….A beautiful home with a large peace of land and your partner next to you.  Children running around playing outside in your backyard on the swings  Being relaxed with your spouse…  These are ideas to get your mind flowing in harmony.  How do you plan to have your perfect day with your future partner?  Dream big….A beautiful home with a large peace of land and your partner next to you.  Children running around playing outside in your backyard on the swings  Being relaxed with your spouse…  These are ideas to get your mind flowing in harmony.