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1 KYLIE KAHOUN AND AVA JAMIR ROMEO AND JULIET

2 THEME The relationship between Juliet and her parents changes a lot. Parent relationships with there kids change a lot. The relation ship between Juliet and her parents is not that great. She wasn’t raised by her parents so they don’t really understand her but yet they force her into marriage which Juliet does not want to do which makes her sneak around. Does strict parents create sneaky kids? In Romeo and Juliet, and most cases if the parent is strict, the only way out is to sneak.

3 ROMEO AND JULIET Juliet forced into love “Speak briefly, can you like of Paris' love? I'll look to like, if nothing liking move; But no more deep will I endart mine eye Than your consent gives me strength to make it fly.” In this scene, Juliets mother is basically begging Juliet to fall in love with this guy she has never met before. Juliet says that she will try, but she doesn't know. Forcing Juliet to do this kind of makes Juliet annoyed that they would make her do this. Juliet forced marriage “I tell thee what- get thee to church a'thrusday Or never after look me in the face. Speak not, reply not, do not answer me! My fingers itch. Wife, we scarcen thought us blessed. That god had lent us but this only child; But now i see this one is one to much, And that we have a curse in having her. Out on her, hilding!” He is basically saying that he wishes he hadent gave birth to her trying to force her in to marriage. Alot of parents will play the guilt trip to get there kid to do what they want. Juliet would rather die than to be with Paris “O, bid me leap, rather than marry Paris, From off the battlements of yonder tower; Or walk in thievish ways; or bid me lurk Where serpents are; chain me with roaring bears; Or shut me nightly in a charnel house, O'ercovered quite with dead men’s rattling bones, With reeky shanks and yellow chapless skulls; Or bid me go into a new-made grave And hide me with a dead man in his shroud— Things that, to hear them told, have made me tremble— And I will do it without fear or doubt, To live an unstained wife to my sweet love.” Juliet says to Friar, that if she has to marry Paris, she will kill herself, and to me that is the most rebellious thing that a kid can do, and the worst thing a kid can do to her parents.

4 Basically what all of this is, is Juliet getting forced into marriage. Her parents said that they wish they could disown her and if she refuses to get married, then she will be on the streets alone. The only way out of everything she says is to go to friar. From there they make a plan where Juliet will never see her parents again. But if her parents wouldn’t of been forcing her and have a feud with the other family, none of this would of happened.

5 WHEN “BAD” TEENS HAPPEN TO GOOD FAMILIES Tons of pressure “Nancy Wright believed you get only one shot at parenting, and she wanted to do it right. She had taken care to put all the proper ingredients in place: a solid marriage to an accountant husband; leaving her own career as a small-business manager to stay home with her three daughters; a comfortable home in Aurora, Ont.; lots of time volunteering at the kids' school; family camping trips and cottage vacations.” I think Jenny's parents put too much pressure when she was a younger kid, being basically perfect in every way. If I were Jenny, I would almost feel trapped having perfect parents that expect so much out of me, I would go crazy. Jenny as a kid “In elementary school, Jenny, the eldest, was an attractive, popular girl, a student council member, a good basketball, volleyball and rep hockey player, a B+ student who wanted to be a veterinarian. “ Jenny was always trying to live up to her parents expectations and always trying to be perfect. Maybe Jenny felt like she would never live up to what they expected from her, so she decided to give up and she rebelled. Jenny now Now heavily into cocaine, Jenny made her way to the streets of Toronto, stealing, panhandling, muling drugs, prostituting herself, in one abusive relationship after another. She was in and out of court on various assault charges. Her parents ordered her into treatment with psychologists, psychiatrists or counsellors, but she'd show up high, or she'd give answers that fooled everyone into thinking she wanted to change. One specialist diagnosed ADHD and prescribed Ritalin; Jenny would get high off it or sell it. Another gave her antidepressants, which made her paranoid. A third prescribed an antipsychotic, which gave her Parkinson's- like side effects. Jenny's parents try to get her back, but some things will just never change. They wish they wouldn't have put so much pressure on Jenny as a child.

6 CAN PRESCHOOLERS BE DEPRESSED? Kiran “Kiran didn’t seem like the type of kid parents should worry about. “He was the easy one,” his father, Raghu, a physician, says. “He always wanted to please.” Unlike other children in his suburban St. Louis preschool, Kiran (a nickname his parents asked me to use to protect his identity) rarely disobeyed or acted out. If he dawdled or didn’t listen, Raghu (also a nickname) had only to count to five before Kiran hastened to tie his shoes or put the toys away. He was kind to other children; if a classmate cried, Kiran immediately approached. “Our little empath!” his parents proudly called him.” He seemed like a happy kid when he was a little boy. Sad boy “But there were worrisome signs. For one thing, unlike your typical joyful and carefree 4-year-old, Kiran didn’t have a lot of fun. “He wasn’t running around, bouncing about, battling to get to the top of the slide like other kids,” Raghu notes. Kiran’s mother, Elizabeth (her middle name), an engineer, recalls constant refrains of “Nothing is fun; I’m bored.” When Raghu and Elizabeth reminded a downbeat Kiran of their coming trip to Disney World, Kiran responded: “Mickey lies. Dreams don’t come true.” Kids that are depressed as little kids can lead to them hurting themselves or becoming depressed when they get older. As he gets older Over time, especially in comparison with Kiran’s even-keeled younger sister, it became apparent that guilt and worry infused Kiran’s thoughts. “We had to be really careful when we told him he did something wrong, because he internalized it quickly,” Raghu says. He was also easily frustrated. He wouldn’t dare count aloud until he had perfected getting to 10. Puzzles drove him nuts. After toying with a new set of Legos, he told his father, “I can’t do Legos.” He then roundly declared: “I will never do them. I am not a Legos person. You should take them away.” As he got older he became very depressed, and it was very apperent. He will probably grow up and use pills, drugs, and alcohol to try and feel better.

7 SEE HOW THEY RUN Busy Schedule A pediatrician told me that some of his young patients wanted him to convince their parents to let them quit a sport so that they could be home more often. Teachers describe a generation of young students weary from schedules that many adults couldn't handle. Kids are feeling forced to do stuff, for example sports. They have to go thorough their pediatriotion to tell there parents ITS ENOUGH! Problems leading to more The presenting problems in therapy were marital conflict and family tensions related to starting a new stepfamily. Stephanie was having trouble tolerating the supervision of her new stepmother, and was becoming alternately withdrawn and angry. I asked her about something I'd never have inquired about in the past: her schedule. When she recounted her typical day, the hair on my neck stood up. I think with all of the stuff teachers and parents give kids to doo, is making them over stressed. Less talk more fight Partly as a consequence of children's new schedules, families spend less time interacting. According to the same survey, household conversations between parents and children--time for just talking and not doing anything else--nearly dropped off the radar screen of family life. Another national survey plotted a one-third decrease in the number of families even claiming to have family dinners regularly. Parents and kids naturally fight. They dont think eachtohere are right but the parent always has to be right. With less time talking it could add more time fighting and more mad parent and child

8 CONNECTING What all of these quotes are saying is even if you think you are doing the best thing for your child, in some cases you are not always. From all of the rules kids don’t think you will allow them to do stuff so why even tell someone if they are going to not allow it anyways?

9 Strict parents create sneaky kids


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