1. Chelsea’s Choice - So What is Child Sexual Exploitation? (CSE) AnyName School Year 8 Tutor Time

2. What is said in the room stays in the room. The only exception is if there is a risk to a child’s safety, or disclosure of a criminal act, in which case the teacher will have to report this. Choose your words carefully. Use language that will not offend or upset anyone. When you give an opinion, try to explain your reasons. Listen to the views of others, and show respect. Don’t put anyone on the spot. If you disagree, comment on what was said, not the person who said it. If you’re worried about something that has happened to you or a friend, don’t share it with the whole group, but do make sure you talk to the teacher at the end of the session. If you feel upset or anxious at any point, raise your hand at any time and ask for ‘time out’. Ground Rules

3. School’s and local authorities have a Duty of Care Safeguarding and Child Protection duties Raising awareness of possible dangers Equipping you with information and knowledge Skills and strategies to keep yourself safe Introduction

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5. Raise awareness and understanding of the varying forms that CSE and grooming can take Raise awareness of warning signs or indicators of CSE or grooming taking place Sign-post to relevant advice and service providers Learning Objectives

6. So What is Child Sexual Exploitation? It’s a type of ABUSE Some adults and some young people may try to draw other young people into sexual relationships, offering a young person somewhere to stay, drugs, cigarettes, alcohol, money, a lift or other gifts in exchange for sexual favours. This is sexual exploitation and can happen to anyone of any gender, race, ability, age or sexual orientation. Although often hidden from mainstream society, it is a significant problem affecting a much larger proportion of young people than is often realised.

7. In young people’s words “ Someone taking advantage of you sexually, for their own benefit. Through threats, bribes, violence, humiliation or by telling you that they love you, they will have the power to get you to do sexual things for their own or other people’s enjoyment.” [the nia project] Working for the Safety of Women and Children

8. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bAo8Yly8rFk Chelsea’s Choice Trailer

9. Giving you the language and vocabulary to understand and ‘read’ situations Targeting and Grooming Relationship Building Sharing Activities and Risk Taking Fake Friendship, Fake Loving Relationship Control and Reinforcement – Manipulation Abusive Relationship Exploitation, Trafficking, Abuse Language and Terminology

10. Spotting the Signs Diamond 9 What are the signs of an abusive relationship? Cut out the cards and arrange in a diamond pattern with the most significant indicator at the top.

11. Plenary: Discuss Themes From Chelsea’s Choice  Power and control  Low self esteem and vulnerability  Fear and dependency  Manipulation and coercion = Exploitations and Abuse Be aware Be safe Have skills and strategies Be Wise

12. What can you do ? Tell any adult you trust – a member of staff at school, it doesn’t have to be a teacher, a family member or friend, or you can contact somebody at the WISE Project The WISE Project is local and is based in Hove It aims to help people who may have experienced sexual exploitation or who are at risk of it To find out more about The WISE Project or if you are experiencing or know someone who may be experiencing sexual exploitation please get in touch. Call Helen on 01273 222583 or email wise@sussexcentralymca.org.uk

13. Be Wise: Keep yourself Safe Find us on Facebook under WiseBrightonandHove Follow us on Twitter @TheWiSEProject

14. CEOP http://www.ceop.police.uk/ Thinkuknow http://www.thinkuknow.co.uk/ Local Safeguarding Children’s Board/MASH’s http://pansussexscb.proceduresonline.com/chapters/pr_contacts.ht ml#brighton_hove More Help and Information

15. Be Wise: Look after yourself and others