1. ROLE OF PARESNTS IN CHILDREN’S UPBRINGING...an Islamic perspective

2. We’ll talk about  Why ?  How ?  Practical Guidance to Parents  Parenting Keys  Last words

3. WHY ? Trust/responsibility from Allah Right of children: Good name & good home Children - Architects of their own character Parents - Architects of the environment

4. HOW ?  Put Parenting first/top priority  Review how you spend hours and days of week  Be a good example  Develop an ear and an eye of your children  Use the language of character  Punish with a loving heart  Learn to listen to your children  Get deeply involved in your child’s school life  Make a big deal out of the family meal  Do not reduce character education to words alone

5. Practical Guidance for Parents  Change work hours - exchange that with family  Read Quran with meaning 5 minutes every day  Attend any weekly Islamic program  Respect your teen  Take an interest in what they do  Be aware of problems & address straightforward.  Have weekly family programs/meetings  "Date" your teenager  Don’t just be teen’s parent, be his/her partner  Build a prayer corner in your home

6. Practical Guidance for Parents  Don’t practice "men’s Islam"  Establish an Islamic library at home  Take them out.....to Islamic activities  Move to a Muslim neighborhood  Help teens start their own youth group  Establish a TV-free evening  Provide the right role models  Read books on Positive Parenting  Get them married early.  Last but not least-Make Dua.

7. Parenting Keys  Take control of the family  Tell don’t ask  When you say it, mean it, the first time  Be brief and specific  Don’t give in to nagging, whining and pressure  Give choices and ask questions  Use rules and routines  Build a foundation of love, trust and respect  Think first, act second

8. Parenting is a learning process....  Every child is different, and every parent is different. Modify the suggestions the best suit your family.  Successful parents have access to ideas and solutions of different parenting guides.  While in problem - Take a few minutes to look up ideas in your parenting books, and talk to educated and experienced parents.

9. May Allah bestow us with that understanding and skills so upbringing our children so they become coolest of our eyes, which is the best return of all our investments on this earth for the life heareafter.....Ameen.