1. WRONG BELIEFS ABOUT MARRIAGE

2. The wife is the one who is responsible for a successful marriage!

3. If we are not emotionally attracted now, we will never be after marriage!

4. Marriage has extraordinary messy characteristics so if our relationship is not going properly now, daily interaction after marriage will dissolve any barriers!

5. Imagining that sharing and spiritual growth will magnify after marriage thinking that spiritual life + another spiritual life = multiple

6. But the fact in real life marriage is that 1 + 1 = half or even Zero!

7. We will grow up together if we get married while we are still young !

8. It doesn’t really matter if I don’t like him as long as he loves me!

9. Sex is just an instinct…Sexual harmony is not that important as social and mental compatibility!

10. Having kids is the main goal in Marriage!

11. Unrealistic expectations like thinking that marriage is the real meaning of life!

12. Even if we are not compatible enough, Children will do it in the future!

13. I can draw an outline for the girl I want to marry then I can put anybody in that imagined frame!