1. Communication in Marriage: the Key to Loving Your Spouse

2. Key Verse - Ephesians 4:29 Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only such a word as is good for edification, according to the need of the moment, that it may give grace to those who hear. Communication

3. What is Communication?  Sharing yourself, so someone can understand and relate to you, and listening to them also  Time  Trust  Transparency ♦ Context:

4. Elements: the key to your future  Responsive  Casual  Explorative  Intimate Four kinds of communication:

5. Intimate Talk  Experiences  Thoughts  Feelings  Commitments  Intentions

6. Barriers to Good Communication Early experience of poor communication Poor self-image Fear of rejection Trying to force your ideas on someone Dwelling on the past Not taking others into account

7. Using “I” statements Willing to apologize Overcoming barriers: Willing to forgive Choosing not to fight

8. Active Listening: the key to knowing your spouse  Active listening  Report back  Clarify  Explore  Men v Women

9. Building from the center  Personal spiritual walk  Only God can tame the tongue  Building up one another  Share your journey Application: I want to be on your team I want to be your best friend I want to love you forever

10. Explore, share, play, enjoy life together