1. AMCS IN 3D ACCEPTANCE IN MANAGING LOSS AND ANGER POWER IS NOT TRANSACTIONAL: BUT BEING TRANSACTIONAL: ACCEPTANCE ALLOWS THE OTHER TO BE; THEIR CHOICE, YOUR POWER.

2. FOUNDATION PIECES IN SGP ETHOS: A REVIEW 1/3 TO JUST EXIS IS NOTHING: MEANINGLESS. HOWEVER, THERE MUST BE EXISTENCE BEFORE ESSENCE. THE SUBJECTIVE INDIVIDUAL IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PIECE: WE ACKNOWLEDGE THE HEGLE VS KIERKEGAARD CONFLICT WITH REGARDS TO THIS ATOMISTIC DILEMMA OF WHERE TO START: THE STATE VS THE INDIVIDUAL: HEGEL’S HISTORICISM MAKES THIS CONFLICT MOOT. HISTORICAL FIGURES.

3. FOUNDATIONAL SGP REVIEW 2/3 EXISTANCE, BEING AND BECOMING: AVOIDING NOTHINGNESS: MEANINGLESSNESS: SEPARATION INTIMACY IN 5 ACTS IS THE ACTION PLAN TO CREATE INTIMATE SPACES TO OVERCOME LOSS AND SEPARATION. CONSCIOUS DEVELOPMENT AND PROGRESSION IS ONTOLOGICAL. MASTERY TO RATIONAL CHOICE: ALWAYS ABOUT CHOICE AND FREEDOM. CHOICE INFORMS ACTION, EVEN BAD CHOICES: IN ACTING WE BECOME: BEING AND BECOMING. HAVE MEANING. OVERCOME SEPARATION: RECOVER FIRST INTIMACY AND THEN LOVE.

4. FOUNDATIONAL TO SGP REVIEW 3/3 THE HOUSE: IN THE LORD’S PRAYER THE HOUSE IS TRANSCENDANT AND UBIQUITOUS IN HUMAN HISTORY. RECOVERY FROM LOSS REQUIRES ACQUIRING KNOWLEDGE TO BUILD THE HOUSE AND HAVING THE MORAL INSIGHTS TO CREATE THE AESTHETIC, MORAL AND ETHICAL SPACES IN THE HOUSE TO RECOVER FROM LOSS: WE MUST BUILD A HOUSE AND THEN FIND THE COURAGE TO LIVE IN IT. MANAGING CONFLICT: MANAGING THE FIRE IMPLICIT IN ALL RELATIONSHIPS: HEAT AND DESTRUCTIVE FIRE VS THE ILLUMINATING LIGHT OF FIRE. DISCURSIVE NOMINALIZATION: INTIMACY IN GETTING TO KNOW THE HOUSE AND NAMING A LABELING VARIOUS ASPECTS OF THE HOUSE BECOMING A HOME. BARGAINING: PRACTICING: RECOVERY.

5. The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want. He maketh me to lie down in green pastures: he leadeth me beside the still waters. He restoreth my soul: he leadeth me in the paths of righteousness for his name's sake. Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies: thou anointest my head with oil; my cup runneth over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life: and I will dwell in the house of the Lord for ever. THE HOUSE, IN THE ETHOS OF THE SGP, IS AN IMPORTANT METAPHOR. — Psalm 23:1-6

6. BARGAINING VS ACCEPTANCE

7. BARGAINING IS NECESSARY WE INCREASE KNOWLEDGE: (EMPATHY GENE) WE INCREASE OUR EXPERIENCES: DISCURSIVE NOMINALIZATION GIVES US A CHANCE TO EXPLORE THE HOME UNDER CONSTRUCTION: ABLE TO RECOGNIZE HARM AND TO FEEL OR EXPERIENCE DISCUSS, ALL INFORMING CHOICE. WE INCREASE OUR UNDERSTANDING: (WHAT TO AVOID)

8. BARGAINING HAS DOWN SIDES 1. PARALYSIS OF ANALYSIS: LIMITS BEING AND BECOMING: 2. CONSTANTLY SEEKING TRUTH BY ACQUIRING KNOWLEDGE UTILIZES ETIC LANGUAGE OR DISCURSIVE NOMINALIZAATION: ETIC SPEECH, UNLESS IT EVOLVES TO EIDOSTIC THEN EIDETIC SPEECH; INVOLVING CULTURAL CONTEXTUALIZATION OF SPEECH AND THEN VISUALIZATION OF OUR EXPERIENCES TO FACILITATING EDITING AND MAKING SPEECH CONSTITUTIVE CAN LEAD TO FAUX INTIMACY, TRUTHERISM, AND CONFIRMATIONAL BIAS, ALL WORKING AGAINST RECOVERY.

9. ACCEPTANCE STOICISM: START OF TRUE POWER. NOT ACTING ON (BY ACTING OUT ON) THE REDUCED RELIANCE OR NEED FOR THE INTIMACY PROVIDED FOR BY THE MASTER-SLAVE RELATIONSHIP. SKEPTICISM: FEELING YOUR OATS BUT ACCEPTING THE CONTOURS OF A RELATIONSHIP YOU DO NOT NEED AS MUCH DUE TO YOUR INTERNAL GROWTH. CREATING AND RELYING ON INTIMATE SPACES YOU PROVIDE FOR YOURSELF. ASKESIS: IN UNHAPPY CONSCIOUSNESS: POWER OF ALLOWING THE OTHER TO BE. FACILITATING THEIR BEING. THERE CHOICE. REMOVING YOURSELF FROM THE EQUATION.

10. COSMOPOLITANISM ACCEPTANCE OF THE OTHER: INTIMACY IN 5 ACTS: SAMENESS IN DIVERSITY: ONENESS. XENIA: PHILLIA: AGAPE: POWER EVOLVES WHEREBY YOU ACCEPT THE OTHR IN THEIR BEING: HAVING PURPOSE: ACCEPTING THEIR CHOICE IN BEING WHICH ENHANCES YOUR POWER. COMPLICATIONS NEEDING TO BE MANAGED: 1. OBJECT USE AND 2. CREATIVE DESTRUCTION: MANAGING THE FIRE.

11. MORAL DEVELOPMENT MORAL FORCE TO MORAL POWER: MANAGING THE FIRE IMPLICIT IN ALL RELATIONSHIPS. REQUIRES RULES AND EXPECTATIONS. REQUIRES CONSOLIDATION OF AESTHETIC INTIMACY: INTIMACY IS ABOUT VALUE. EMPATHY: YOUR SENSE OF VALUE, INFORMS YOUR CHOICE IN ACTING: MANAGING THE OBJECT USE AND CREATIVE DESTRUCTION OF BEING AND BECOMING REQUIRES THE ELABORATION OF RULES AND EXPECTATIONS OF CONDUCT AND ACTION. REDUCING CONFLICT: