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Abby Whitaker EdPsych 250
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About 40% of children born into married, two-biological parent families are likely to experience divorce or separation before they reach age 18. GPA 11% lower than children with intact families
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Age at time of divorceInitial ReactionsLater Reactions (2-10 Years) 2-6 Years Old *more likely to blame themselves *more likely to fear abandonment *difficulty expressing feelings *boy and girls are effected differently *less likely to have memory of the conflict (parent’s and own) *close to custodial parent and step-parent *may have anger at non- custodial parent (prevent strong adult relationship) 7-12 Years Old *express feelings in sadness, fear, and anger *less likely to blame themselves *more likely to feel divided loyalties *may do better with same-sex parent *more difficulty adjusting to remarriage *may challenge family rules *”you’re not my real parent” *tend to show decreased academic performance and disturbed peer relations 13-18 Years Old *difficulty coping with anger, outrage, shame, and anger *more likely to reexamine own their own values *may disengage from family *shares feelings of ages 7-12 *can not express feelings *may fear long-term relationships *may show adjustment difficulties: running away, truancy, and delinquency Sources: Kelly, 1998; Amato, 1993; Hetherington, 1991; Wallerstein, 1991; Wallerstein and Blakeslee, 1989
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Financials recourses for both parents One parent moves out of the house Be separated from a sibling Both parents live in a different place Leave community, friends, teachers Visitation schedules General family life
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Less likely to perform well in school Loss of motivation Emotionally preoccupied Forget or no time to complete homework More difficulty paying attention and completing tasks
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Provide a supportive, secure environment Provide opportunities for children to exercise personal control (leadership roles, influence decisions) Be tolerant of variability in academic performance Express faith in children’s character and capacity for growth (less critical, more patient) Create safe channels of communication
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Focus upon divorce-related problems only as they affect children's classroom behavior and academic performance Refer general divorce-related problems to the school's counselor/psychologist Discuss divorce-related problems with parents only in terms of how they affect the child's classroom behavior and academic performance
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Avoid being drawn into taking sides, or supporting one parent's claims over the other Be compassionate and a source of support to children, but do not take on a parental role
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Subconsciously use school as a place to vent anger, frustration, sadness Scared and confused about life Do not know how to act Behave well for parents in hopes that they will get back together Teacher can give support, comfort, and an open line of communication
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Miller, Paul A., Ryan,P., Morrison, W. (1999). Practical strategies for helping children of divorce in today's classroom. Childhood Education. Retrieved from http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_qa3614/is_199901/ai_n88509 97/?tag=content;col1 http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_qa3614/is_199901/ai_n88509 97/?tag=content;col1 Kendrick, Carleton. (n.d.) Behavior Problems Stem from Divorce. Retrieved from http://life.familyeducation.com/divorce/behavioral- problems/41390.html http://life.familyeducation.com/divorce/behavioral- problems/41390.html Children of Divorce and Adjustment: Effects on Children. (n.d.) Retrieved from http://www.psychpage.com/family/divorce/childrenadjust.htm http://www.psychpage.com/family/divorce/childrenadjust.htm
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