1. Body and Soul – Sexually Whole
1 Corinthians 6:9 to 7:9
Family Matters Series
March 4-5, 2017
Pastor Dave Smith //

2. Hollywood The Holy Word Find the right person. Fall into bed (love).
Fix your hopes and dreams on this person for your future fulfillment.
If failure occurs, repeat steps 1, 2, 3
Become the right person.
Walk in love (Eph. 5)
Fix your hope on God and seek to please Him through this relationship.
If failure occurs, repeat steps 1, 2, 3

3. 3For this is the will of God, your sanctification: that you abstain from sexual immorality; 4that each one of you know how to control his own body in holiness and honor, 5not in the passion of lust like the Gentiles who do not know God; 6that no one transgress and wrong his brother in this matter, because the Lord is an avenger in all these things, as we told you beforehand and solemnly warned you. 7For God has not called us for impurity, but in holiness. 8Therefore whoever disregard this, disregards not man but God, who gives his Holy Spirit to you.
1 Thessalonians 4: 3-8

4. 1 Corinthians 6:9 to 7:9 6: 9-11 – inheriting the kingdom
6: – who owns your body?
6: – your body = god’s temple
7: 1-6 – sex within marriage
7: 7-9 – the gift of singleness
1 Corinthians 6:9 to 7:9

5. Corinth Corrupt with sexual sin The City Out of order The Church
Mostly Gentiles
Divisions; no discipline
Content to be single
The City
The Church
The Converts
The Controversies
The author – Paul
Corinth

6. 9Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, 10nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God. 11And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.
1 Corinthians 6: 9-11

7. Inheriting the Kingdom
The unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom:
The sexually immoral
Idolaters
Adulterers
Homosexuals
Thieves
The greedy
Drunkards
Revilers
Swindlers
Such were some of you.
But you were:
Washed (saved)
Sanctified (on a new path)
Justified (in right standing)
By Jesus & the Spirit
Inheriting the Kingdom

8. ADULTERY & FORNICATION
Adultery = moicheia = the sin of a married person engaging in sex with someone not their spouse
Fornication = porneia = sexual immorality = any other sexual act = sex between singles and more
1 Cor. 5:1-11 (man who “has” his father’s wife)
Matthew 19:9 (grounds for divorce – from Jesus)
God judges all fornicators & adulterers (Hebrews 13:4 and 1 Thessalonians 4)
Male homosexuals (malakos & arsenokoites); lesbians (Romans 1:26-27)
ADULTERY & FORNICATION

9. 12”All things are lawful for me,” but not all things are helpful
12”All things are lawful for me,” but not all things are helpful. “All things are lawful for me,” but I will not be enslaved by anything. 13”Food is meant for the stomach, and the stomach for food” – and God will destroy both one and the other. The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. 14And God raised the Lord and will also raise us up by his power. 15Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ and make them members of a prostitute? Never!
1 Corinthians 6: 12-15

10. Who owns your body? Corinthian sayings: Paul’s additions:
All things are lawful (Anything goes!)
Food for the stomach (Fill your appetites!)
Paul’s additions:
Some things are not helpful; in fact, harmful
God will destroy; all pleasures are temporary
God’s purpose for your body does not include sexual immorality (porneia)
Our bodies are sacred – will be resurrected one day; members of Christ; sin with Christ?
Who owns your body?

11. 16Or do you not know that he who is joined to a prostitute becomes one body with her? For as it is written, “The two will become one flesh.” 17But he who is joined to the Lord becomes one spirit with him. 18Flee from sexual immorality. Every other sin a person commits is outside the body, but the sexually immoral person sins against his own body. 19Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, 20for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.
1 Corinthians 6: 16-20

12. Your Body = His Temple Two becoming one (Genesis 2: 24):
One flesh with a prostitute
One spirit with the Lord (betrothed, 2 Cor. 11)
Owned by God, body and soul
Sexual sin destroys God’s purpose for you
Flee! (Joseph & Mrs. Potiphar, Genesis 39)
Sinning with another; against your own body
Your body is His temple
You are not your own; bought with a price
Glorify God = worship & serve
Porn stats = 70% of men regularly; slightly lower 35+’: larger 11-17; women 1 in 3 pre-teen to mid-30s (largest group seeking addiction help); 12% sites; 35% of all downloads
More activities
Your Body = His Temple

13. 1Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” 2But because of the temptation to sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. 3The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5Do not deprive one another, except perhaps by agreement for a limited time, that you may devote yourselves to prayer; but then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self control. 6Now as a concession, not a command, I say this.
1 Corinthians 7: 1-6

14. Sex within Marriage Answering questions (marital abstinence?)
“Not touching a woman” (KJV) = to set a fire
Sex drive satisfied in marriage
Mutual submission in the sexual side of marriage; authority over spouse’s body
Primary application of the verse = sexual union
Another application = togetherness; build intimacy
Not a commandment, but a concession
Mutual agreement; a limited time; for prayer
Come together again OR suffer Satanic temptation
Satanic tempt = porn; also affairs = 57% of men; 54% of women (but 68% say they would if not get caught)
Sex within Marriage

15. The Only Satisfying Physical Intimacy
Scripture praises sex within marriage. In fact, it is the ONLY sex praised in the Scripture.
God’s purposes for sexual union in marriage:
Procreation
Communication
Consolation
Recreation
The world reverses this order and disconnects sex from the commitment of marriage; enslaved
The couple in the Song of Solomon depicts …
The Only Satisfying Physical Intimacy

16. 7I wish that all were as I myself am
7I wish that all were as I myself am. But each has his own gift from God, one of one kind and one of another. 8To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is good for them to remain single as I am. 9But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
1 Corinthians 7: 7-9

17. The Gift of Singleness “As I myself am” = single, happy, content
“Gift” = charisma = spiritual gifts; “grace”
A special giftedness to remain married
A special giftedness to stay pure as a single
Self-control (fruit of the Spirit, Galatians 5: 22-23)
Burn with passion (not the only reason to marry)
The Gift of Singleness

18. FOR TODAY’s CORINTHIANS
Don’t destroy God’s temple (your body & soul) for the sake of sex.
Two becoming one is the goal of marriage.
Prepare for marriage by building intimacy of the mind & heart & soul – God’s way.
If divorced, did you stray from God’s plan?
Are you practicing self-control or are you giving in to the “burning”?
Don’t play games with God, or with another person’s feelings.
Do not withhold your body from your spouse
If self-control is a problem, come to Celebrate Recovery.
FOR TODAY’s CORINTHIANS