2. Why talk about homosexuality?
Defining social issue of this generation
Most of us know someone affected
Christians have often responded without grace

3. What does “homosexuality” mean?
Attraction
Identity
Behavior

4. Where does homosexual attraction come from?
Nature, nurture, or choices?
Dr. Marc Breedlove (Mich State Univ) “These findings give us proof for what we theoretically know to be the case – that sexual experience can alter the structure of the brain, just as genes can alter it. It is possible that differences in sexual behavior cause, rather than are caused by, differences in brain structure.”

5. Where does homosexual attraction come from?
Nature, nurture, or choices?
Simon LeVay
“I did not prove that homosexuality is genetic, or find a genetic cause for being gay. I didn’t show that gay men are born that way, the most common mistake people make in interpreting my work. Nor did I locate a gay center in the brain.”

6. Where does homosexual attraction come from?
Nature, nurture, or choices?
Bailey and Pillard twins study
If one twin is gay...
identical twins: both gay 52%
fraternal twins: both gay 22%

7. Where does homosexual attraction come from?
Nature, nurture, or choices?
Potentially all 3
Nearly 70% of gender confused boys do not have a father at home

8. Where does homosexual attraction come from?
Nature, nurture, or choices?
Potentially all 3
46% of homosexual men report being molested
90% of lesbian women had experienced some form of abuse as a child

9. Where does homosexual attraction come from?
Nature, nurture, or choices?
Potentially all 3
This is not what really matters

10. Is homosexuality sin?
Leviticus 18:22
You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination.

11. Is homosexuality sin?
Leviticus 20:13
If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death. Their bloodguiltiness is upon them.

12. Is homosexuality sin?
1 Corinthians 6:9-10
...Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God.

13. Is homosexuality sin? Romans 1:26-27
For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error.

14. Is homosexuality sin? Behavior, not attraction, is the issue
Homosexual behavior is clearly sin

15. Is homosexual behavior worse than other sins?
Absolutely not!
1 Cor 6 – with stealing, getting drunk, coveting
Rom 1 – middle of the pack
Jesus – saved wrath for self-righteous
You are not a 2nd class Christian
This struggle does not define you

16. Why must we tell people that homosexual behavior is sin?
To lead them to the gospel
To help them escape the consequences
1 Corinthians 6:18
Flee immorality. Every other sin that a man commits is outside the body, but the immoral man sins against his own body.

17. Why must we tell people that homosexual behavior is sin?
To lead them to the gospel
To help them escape the consequences
78% of homosexuals have had an STD
1.5x higher risk of depression
3x higher risk of suicide
avg life expectancy: years shorter!

18. Can homosexual behavior change?
1 Corinthians 6:11
...nor effeminate, nor homosexuals... Such were some of you; but you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and in the Spirit of our God.

19. Can homosexual behavior change?
1 Corinthians 10:13
No temptation has overtaken you but such as is common to man; and God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will provide the way of escape also, so that you will be able to endure it.

20. Can homosexual orientation change?
Yes, with caveats
Philippians 2:12–13
So then, my beloved, just as you have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your salvation with fear and trembling; for it is God who is at work in you, both to will and to work for His good pleasure.

21. Can homosexual orientation change?
Yes, with caveats
may not include heterosexual desires
the opposite of homosexuality is not heterosexuality, it’s holiness

22. Can homosexual orientation change?
Yes, with caveats
may not include heterosexual desires
vigilance will be required in this life

23. What if you struggle with homosexuality?
Remember:
behavior, not temptation, is sin
this struggle does not define you
there is hope – change is possible
Do:
flee tempting people & situations
be accountable to someone safe
get expert help
exodusinternational.org

24. What if someone you love struggles with or embraces homosexuality?
Relax
Educate yourself
exodusinternational.org
101 Frequently Asked Questions about Homosexuality by Mike Haley
Speak the truth in grace
Pray