1. CHINESE TRADITIONAL WEDDING
——CUSTOM

2. Golden fate God bestows
（JIN YU LIANG YUAN）
Golden fate God bestows
一、Before wedding

3. ——Three Letters and Six Etiquettes
三书六礼（SAN SHU LIU LI）
——Three Letters and Six Etiquettes
Etiquettes:
纳采 Proposing
问名 Birthdates matching
纳吉 Presenting betrothal gifts
纳征 Presenting wedding gifts
请期 Picking a wedding date
亲迎 Wedding ceremony
Letters:
聘书 Betrothal Letter
礼书 Gift Letter
迎书 Wedding Letter

4. Presenting betrothal gifts:
Once birthdays match, the groom’s family will then arrange the matchmaker to present betrothal gifts, enclosing the betrothal letter, to the bride’s family.
Presenting wedding gifts:
After the betrothal letter and betrothal gifts are accepted, the groom’s family will later formally sand wedding gifts to the bride’s family. Usually, gifts may include tea, lotus seeds, longan, red beans, green beans, red dates, nutmeg, oranges, pomegranate, lily, bridal cakes, coconuts, wine, red hair braid, money box and other stuff, depending on local customs and family wealth.

5. 二、During the wedding

6. Accompany bride to bridegroom’s family on wedding day.送亲
Accompany bride to bridegroom’s family on wedding day.
Crying
A sedan chair
Orange
Brazier

7. Perform the formal wedding ceremony.拜堂
Perform the formal wedding ceremony.
Bow to the great heaven and earth.
Bow to the great parents.
Bow to each other.

8. 洞房 Bridal chamber Wedlock wine Teasing game Four fruit: Jujube(红枣)
Peanut(花生)
Longan(桂圆)
Lots seed(莲子)

9. 三、After the wedding

10. 奉茶 Tea ceremony One day after the wedding ceremony A cup of tea
Red pocket with money

11. 归宁 Mothering Three days after the wedding ceremony Worship ancestors
With husband
A roast pig

12. Thank you 谢谢