1. How can you be the best ‘you’
How can you be the best ‘you’? ‘Do not conform to the patterns of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind’ Paul, in his letter to the church in Rome (Romans 12:2) Then some very good and practical advice in verses 3-8 we have just heard read...

2. Be honest with yourself and about yourself
Don’t be pompous
Be honest with yourself and about yourself
Your gifts and abilities
Not pretending you are good at something you are not good at
But no false modesty
Human nature alone is not sufficient
We are naturally self-seeking and self-centred
We work to represent people like ourselves
Personality and character...

3. Mature = build on personality strengths, manage around limitations
Mature = humble about character strengths, working on gaps
Increased change
Character
Skills/ knowledge
Personality
Talent
Mature = build on personality strengths, manage around limitations

4. We also need each other We are not independent All members of one body
Without pooling our gifts and abilities we will be defective
All members of one body
Different gifts
Acknowledge they come from God, and it puts a different complexion on things
We don’t own anything – even our own bodies, money, abilities
They are there as a gift from God to be used or the good of all
Together, IF we believe and practise our faith, we make up Christ in the world...

6. Relating to others (verses 9-21)
Sincerity/authenticity
Honour one another
Spiritual fervour
‘Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer’
Dealing with disagreements
‘Bless and do not curse’
No mud-slinging
At peace as far as it depends on you
Bitterness and resentment – who does it hurt?

7. God will give the opportunity for those who are wrong to realise their faults and change
it might be you, or me...
Paul continues:
The earthly authorities are established by God
God will deal with ungodly rulers
It’s not your call if you have done your best
So pay taxes, and give honour