1. Sex and Dating
Goals for Learning

2. As we begin our new unit on all the decisions a person may make in regards to dating and sex, you should consider what your personal learning goals are.
Which of the following topics covered in this unit are important to you to learn more about?

3. You could have a couple goals that you want to say you have achieved or you could be interested in learning about all of the topics.
Everyone has had different experiences and will want to indicate their own personal learning goals.

4. Finding out what characteristics I am looking for in a boyfriend/girlfriend/partner/spouse.
Understanding the difference between infatuation and love. Learning how to know which I am experiencing.
Understanding that relationships go through stages and knowing how to identify which of the three stages I am in.

5. To know what the “red flags” are and when I may want to consider ending a relationship.
Understanding the difference between a functional and a dysfunctional relationship.
Knowing how to get out of an abusive relationship.

6. Learning tips on how to make a relationship happy and lasting.
Learning how to have intimacy in a relationship without sexual activity.
Make decisions on your sexual boundaries: what is your plan?

7. Learn about choosing abstinence.
Learn about the risks associated with substance use and sexual decision making.
Learn the myths and facts about birth control and sexually transmitted infections.

8. Learn about all the different
methods available to prevent
pregnancy.
Learn about how to stay safe and protected from STI’s and HIV when sexually active.
Learn about the realities of becoming a parent while you are a teenager.

9. Intelligent Dating
Intelligent dating – dating successfully; being selective about who you date; keeping your standards; having fun
Brainless dating – dating ineffectively; dating anyone who comes along; centering your life around boyfriend/girlfriend; doing what everyone else is doing

10. Who Should I go Out With?
However there is so much more than just looks – you need to consider personality when thinking of long term relationships
Example – How much thought/consideration does a person put in to buying a car?
Compared to dating?

11. Who Should I Go Out With?
What is the first thing you notice about a person? Their personality?
Their looks – being attracted to someone is where it all starts
Remember that everyone has their own personal preferences when it comes to “attractiveness”.

12. Begin With The End in Mind
What is your wish list of character traits?
What things can you do without?
Get clear on what’s really important to you and where you won’t compromise. Don’t date just anyone. Be choosy.

13. Let’s Go Fishing
Activity