1. The difference Jesus makes

2. The difference Jesus makes
With our past In our relationships With our feelings With those who don’t like us With our money

3. The difference Jesus makes
In our Relationships
Titus 2: 1-14

4. Gen 2:18
The Lord God said “it is not good
for a man to be alone, I will make a
helper suitable for him”

5. …. Healthy relationships are a vital component of health and wellbeing
…. Healthy relationships are a vital component of health and wellbeing. There is compelling evidence that strong relationships contribute to a long, healthy, and happy life.

6. Relationship?

7. Searching.. 15 million singles registered for online dating
1400 dating websites
17% of couples recently married met online
UK online dating market is worth £150m

8. Searching..
35% dis-satisfied
75% no relationship

9. Titus 2 : 1-14
You, however, must teach what is appropriate to sound doctrine.  Teach the older men to be temperate, worthy of respect, self-controlled, and sound in faith, in love and in endurance.
Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good.

10.  Then they can urge the younger women to love their husbands and children,  to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God.
Similarly, encourage the young men to be self-controlled.  In everything set them an example by doing what is good.

11. In your teaching show integrity, seriousness  and soundness of speech that cannot be condemned, so that those who oppose you may be ashamed because they have nothing bad to say about us.
Teach slaves to be subject to their masters in everything, to try to please them, not to talk back to them,  and not to steal from them, but to show that they can be fully trusted,

12. so that in every way they will make the teaching about God our Savior attractive.
 For the grace of God has appeared that offers salvation to all people.  It teaches us to say “No” to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age,  

13. while we wait for the blessed hope—the appearing of the glory of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ,  who gave himself for us to redeem us from all wickedness and to purify for himself a people that are his very own, eager to do what is good.

14. Teach
Live it out

15. V11
For the Grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men

16. Therefore if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion,  then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind. Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. :

17. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.
In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus

18. United with Christ
Like-mindedness
Humility