1. Conflict Resolution

2. Healthy relationships take work!
Describe a relationship that you need to work at to keep healthy. Explain.

3. Lesson:
Healthy relationships does not mean there will not be any disagreements. Conflict resolution is the process of ending struggles by cooperation and problem solving.
Stay calm
Talk about how you feel
Use “I” statements
Listen
Avoid blaming
Avoid put downs
Avoid using loaded words
Reserve judgements or threats
Separate the person from the problem
Use a mediator – friend, counselor, or other adult

4. Lesson:
Compromise – both parties give a little to solve the conflict Avoidance – one person involved walks away Passive/aggressive – one person gives in (passive) allowing the other to “win” (aggressive) Mediation – attempting to solve conflict using the assistance of another person

5. Lesson: Decision-Making Model – Define the conflict
Brainstorm alternatives
List pros & cons of each
Make sure they are safe & legal
Come to a decision
AFTER – evaluate that decision

6. Activity:
Conflict Scenerios

7. Ticket Out the Door Quiz:
What are the two (2) potential outcomes of any conflict?
Why do you think maintaining a healthy relationship takes work?
Name three (3) strategies for a healthy, positive conflict resolution.