1. RESILIENCE: ONE STEP BACK So Kids Can Step Up @AskDoctorG @AskDocG
Deborah Gilboa, MD
AskDoctorG.com

2. hap·pi· ness: noun good fortune; pleasure; contentment; joy
INGREDIENTS:
Confidence
Competence
Relationships

3. WHY DO PARENTS
SAY NO?

4. CULTURE OF “SUCCESSFUL” FAMILIES
Myth vs
Truth

5. COST
“Students who reported having over-controlling parents reported significantly higher levels of depression and less satisfaction with life. Furthermore, the negative effects of helicopter parenting on college students’ well-being were largely explained by the perceived violation of students’ basic psychological needs for autonomy and competence.”

6. WHY WOULD WE LET THEM TRY?
Independence -> Confidence
Competence
Relationships
Resilience. 6

7. WHEN?

8. What are they already doing?
EXPECTATIONS
What are they already doing?

9. RESILIENCE CHALLENGES
Mistakes
Accidents
Pain
Social consequences
Judgment
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10. WHAT ADULTS NEED TO REMEMBER
Stepping in can
-> safety
Stepping in harms
Confidence
Competence
Relationships

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