2. Talking about
SEX
is awkward!

4. Affection Greek: Storge
Definition: affection, especially of parents to offspring; but also offspring to parent.1
Example: Mother nursing a baby.2
Lewis, 31
Lewis, 32

5. Affection3 Need-love: What it needs is to give.
Gift Love: It needs to be needed.
3. Lewis, 32

6. Affection4
Can enter into the other loves and color them all through and become the very medium in which from day to day they operate.
This blending of the loves is well kept before us because they all have a common expression, the kiss.
4. Lewis, 34-35

7. Affection5 Loves the unattractive Does not expect too much
Turns a blind eye to faults
Revives easily after quarrels
Opens our eyes to goodness we could not have seen without it.
5. Lewis, 37

8. Affection & Jealousy6 Case Studies (Small Groups) Two Brothers
Mrs. Fidget
Dr. Quartz
6. Lewis, 46

9. Small Group Discussion7
20 Minutes

11. Friendship8 Greek: Phileo
Definition: Something quite marginal; not a main course in life’s banquet’ a diversion’ something that fills up the chinks of one’s time.
Example: When two people are friends they have in some degree drawn apart together from the heard.
8. Lewis, 58

12. Friendship
Do you think it is a love?
(Discuss for 5 minutes).

13. Friendship9
Ancients: Friendship seemed the happiest and most folly human of all loves
Modern: ignores it.
9. Lewis, 57

14. Friendship10 We admit that every human needs a few “friends.”
Fills up the chinks of one’s time
10. Lewis, 58

15. Friendship11 Least natural of loves;
Least instinctive, organic, biological, gregarious and necessary.
Lease commerce with our nerves
Nothing quickens the pulse or turns you red or pale.
11. Lewis, 58

16. Friendship12 Least biological of our loves
Both individual and community can survive without it.
Friendship arises out of companionship13
Two or more companions discover they have something in common.
Friendship can lead into more14
12. Lewis, 63
13. Lewis, 65
14. Lewis, 67

18. EROS
Greek: Eros
Definition: being in love, the kind of love in which lovers are in.13
Example: Not to be confused with sex (Venus).14
13. Lewis, 91
14. Lewis, 92

19. Eros
Someone in state of reality doesn’t think of sex. They are too busy thinking of a person.15
“To be thinking of him/her.”16
Sexual Desire, without Eros, wants it, the thing in itself; Eros wants the Beloved.
The thing is a sensory pleasure, that is an event occurring in one’s own body.
Eros makes someone really want, not a person, but a particular person.17
15. Lewis, 93
16. Lewis, 93
17. Lewis, 94

20. Eros
Eros wonderfully transforms what is par excellence a Need-pleasure into the most Appreciative of all pleasures.18
18. Lewis, 95

21. Eros19 By nature becomes a demon Danger of idolatry
Lovers idolize each other
Lovers idolize Eros himself
19. Lewis,

22. Eros
Small Group Discussion (15 Minutes)

24. Charity
Greek: Agape
Definition: the love of God
Example: