1. Lathrop Intermediate School Home of the Spartans
#RelationshipGoals
College Prep Lesson
Wednesday, February 15, 2017
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2. December and January Yearbook Raffle Winners
December: Brenda Gonzalez
January: Elena Arechiga
You have won a yearbook. Please see Ms. Kim in the front office at the end of the day.
If you would like to enter to win a
yearbook, you may enter the raffle for 1 Pride Ticket at the Student Store
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3. Since yesterday was Valentine’s Day, some of us may have relationships on our minds… Before we talk about relationships, let’s define what a relationship is.
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4. RELATIONSHIP re·la·tion·ship rəˈlāSH(ə)nˌSHip/ noun
the way in which two or more concepts, objects, or people are connected, or the state of being connected.
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5. What kinds of relationships are there?
There are a variety of relationships we can have with other people.
There are four basic types of relationships:
Family Relationships
Friendships
Casual Relationships
Romantic Relationships
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6. Family Relationship
We first learn about loving and caring relationships from our families. Family is defined as a domestic group of people with some degree of kinship – whether through blood, marriage, or adoption.
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7. Friendship
Everyone needs friends, and you probably have always had at least one. A friend is defined as a person you know well and regard with affection, trust, and respect.
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8. Casual Relationships
Causal relationships are formed with people you encounter every day – anyone who is not a friend, romantic relationship, or family member.
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9. Romantic Relationship
In thinking about the different types of relationships, it is important to realize that you can have an intimate relationship with anyone. An intimate relationship is one in which you can truly be yourself with someone who you respect and are respected by in return. It is an emotional connection
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10. What are some components to a healthy relationship?
Communication
Trust
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11. Conflict Resolution Skills How to Deal with Disagreements
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Conflict Resolution Skills
How to Deal with Disagreements
1. Define the problem clearly from both points of view.
2. State what you can agree on.
3. Brainstorm together over all of the possible alternatives to the problem.
4. State what changes each of you is personally willing to make to arrive at a solution.
5. Summarize the best solution you have considered.
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12. Trust is an extremely important aspect to a healthy relationship!
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14. Respect
On a practical level respect includes taking someone's feelings, needs, thoughts, ideas, wishes and preferences into consideration.
It means taking all of these seriously and giving them worth and value. In fact, giving someone respect seems similar to valuing them and their thoughts, feelings, etc.
It also includes acknowledging them, listening to them, being truthful with them, and accepting their individuality.
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17. Activity
If time permits: Write a quick note to someone you have a good relationship with. Tell them what you appreciate about them and your relationship. You can write to a friend, a classmate, a teacher, a family member or loved one.
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18. Resources Sutter Health http://www.pamf.org/teen/abc/types/
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