1. Cor Unum
One Heart

2. God
Man
Woman

3. One with God
Jesus prayed that all may be one as he and his Father are one (John 17: 11-23).
I beseech you that there be no divisions among you, but that ye be perfectly joined together (1 Cor 1:10).
Be determined in one mind and in one heart, united in all things (2 Nephi 1:21).
The Lord called his people Zion because they were of one heart and one mind (Moses 7:18)

4. One with Spouse
For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. (Ephesians 5:31).
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife and they shall be one flesh (Abraham 5:18).

5. Husband
Wife
Daughter
Son
Son

6. - - - - - - - - - - - - Television Grudge Work Children
Household Labor
Friends
Parents
Unkind Words
Husband
Wife
Daughter
Son
Son

7. Heavenly Father
But I would have you know, that the head of every man is Christ; and the head of the
woman is the man; and the head of Christ is God. (1 Corinthians 11:3)

8. Things in the Middle Attitudes (The man presides) Societal Lies
If my husband loves me he will….
If my wife loves me she will….

9. Love Languages Words of Affirmation (praise) Service Physical Touch
Gifts (freely with no strings attached)
Quality Time

10. Emotion
Action
Wife
Thought
Event
Thought
Husband
Action
Emotion

11. Principles of Communication
One cannot not behave
One cannot not communicate
The meaning of a given behavior is not the true meaning of the behavior; it is, however, the personal truth for the person who has given it a particular meaning (subjective)
Be curious! What is their reality?
Communication takes place in a context

12. Communication Model Noise Interference Noise Interference Senders
Actions
(Public)
Effect On
Listener
(Private)
Senders
Intentions
(Private)
Communication begins with the senders intentions which are private
These intentions can involve interference (mental set, mixed motives)
These intentions must be encoded into verbal and nonverbal behavior that is public and observable
Interference occurs from noise such as noisy distractions, mood, and social skill
Wow it sure is cold in here?
You smell good?
Father sent his son to the store.
Here is one dollar for nails and 6 cents for tax.
Son comes back crying and upset.
Father asks why he is crying and he reported that he could only get the tacs and not the nails because he hadn’t given him enough money for the nails.
Senders Style
Of Encoding
Listeners
Style Of
Decoding