1. Do other people see you as you see yourself?

2. Do other people see you as you see yourself?
Points:
1. (a) 2 (b) 4 (c) 6
2. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 7 (d) 2 (e) 1
3. (a) 4 (b) 2 (c) 5 (d) 7 (e) 6 (f) 1
4. (a) 4 (b) 6 (c) 2 (d) 1
5. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 3 (d) 5 (d) 2
6. (a) 6 (b) 4 (c) 2
7. (a) 6 (b) 2 (c) 4
8. (a) 6 (b) 2 (c) 7 (d) 3 (e) 5 (f) 1 (g) 4
9. (a) 7 (b) 6 (c) 4 (d) 2 (e) 1
10. (a) 4 (b) 2 (c) 3 (d) 7 (e) 5 (f) 6 (g) 1

3. Do other people see you as you see yourself?
What it means:
Over 60
others see you as someone they should “handle with care” – vain, self-centred and extremely dominant. They may admire you and wish they could be more like you, are certainly in awe of you, but they don’t always trust you and hesitate to become deeply involved with you.

4. Do other people see you as you see yourself?
From 51 to 60:
your friends see you as an exciting, highly volatile, rather impulsive personality; a natural leader, quick to make decisions (though not always the right ones), They see you as bold and venturesome, someone who will try anything – well, almost anything – once; someone who takes a chance and enjoys an adventure. They enjoy being in your company because of the excitement you radiate.

5. Do other people see you as you see yourself?
From 41 to 50:
others see you as fresh, lively, charming, amusing and always interesting; someone who is constantly the centre of attention, but sufficiently well-balanced not to let it go to your head. They see you also as kind, considerate and understanding, someone who will cheer them up or help them out as the situation requires.

6. Do other people see you as you see yourself?
From 31 to 40
other people see you as sensible, cautious, careful and practical. They see you as clever, gifted and talented, but modest. Not a person who makes friends too quickly or too easily, but someone who is extremely loyal to their friends you do make and who expects the same loyalty in return. Those who really get to know you realise that it takes a lot to shake your trust in your friends, but, equally, that it takes you a long time to get over it if that trust is shaken.

7. Do other people see you as you see yourself?
From 21 to 30
Your friends see you as meticulous and painstaking, perhaps a bit too fussy at times, ultra-cautious and ultra-careful, a slow steady plodder. It would surprise them tremendously if you were ever to behave impulsively or do something on the spur of the moment. They expect you to examine everything very carefully from every conceivable angle and then, usually, decide against it. They see this sort of reaction on your part as being partly due to your nature and partly to indolence.

8. Do other people see you as you see yourself?
Under 21
You are seen to be shy, nervous and indecisive, someone who needs looking after, who always leaves it to someone else to make the decisions and prefers never to get too involved with someone or something. The see you as something of a worrier, seeing problems which don’t exist and crossing bridges long before you come to them. Some people tend to regard you as dull and boring and it takes someone who knows you well to know that you are not. The trouble is that you permit very few people to get close to you.

9. Personal equation Cards

10. Personal equation Cards
Write a description of yourself in such a way that it could be no other person you know. Describe ideas and personality rather then physical appearance.

11. Personal equation Cards
All the cards in the group are then collected in a box.
After they have been mixed up they are read by a member of the group. The group has to identify who wrote each card.
If the group thinks the card might belong to more than one person, or if anyone in the group says “That’s just like me”, the author of the card must revise his or her description.