1. HealthY & UnHealthy Dating Relationships
Write down the information or what it says to do in red

2. We don’t all have the same ideas about qualities & expectations for dating. Express those ideas for yourself
In your journals write 5 qualities you would want in a date and why each one is important to you.
In your journals write 5 expectations or characteristics of a date that you would want and why each one is important to you .

3. What Is Consent “Do You Want a Cup of Tea?”

4. Go to the Website https://www. plannedparenthood
1. Click on Relationships 101: Read through the information on “What’s a healthy relationship?
In your journal write down 3 of the 6 things you think are most important:
2. Click on Abusive Relationships: Read through the information on each of the 4 sections
In your journal write 3 important things you learned from each section:
3. Click on Consent & Rape: Read through the information on “What is Consent?
In your journal write down 3 of the 6 things you think are most important

5. Healthy Relationships
Commonly accepted values such as:
respect, honesty, equity, consideration, commitment
Healthy relationships result in mental, emotional, social, and physical benefits.
Shared responsibility and requires good communication.
All behaviors should be agreed upon and CONSENTUAL

6. The Stats on dating violence
1 in 4 women & 1 in 6 men will be sexually assaulted in their lifetime
Girls are 4x more likely to experience a rape
12% of girls and 5% of boys in high school have been sexually assaulted
93% knew the perpetrator (

7. Unhealthy Relationships
Unhealthy relationships can be precursors for sexual assault and dating violence
Pay attention to the warning signs: RED Flags
(list 5 from next page
Both men & women can be abusers in unhealthy relationships

8. Early Warning Signs of Dating Violence
Controlling Extreme Jealousy
Manipulative Low Self-Esteem
Unpredictable Mood Swings Possessiveness
Push for a Quick Relationship Gender Stereotyping
Explosive Anger Abusive in Past

9. Signs of Dating Violence In your journal List 4-5 that you feel are important to know
Physical Signs of Injury
Dropping Out of School or Missing School Frequently
Failing Grades
Indecision
Changes in Mood or Personality
Use of Drugs/Alcohol
Pregnancy
Emotional Outbursts
Isolation

10. How to Help a Friend If you’re worried, say something
Listen, support, and believe them
Help your friend take action
Encourage them to get help and get out
Call in reinforcements – talk to a trusted adult
Do you know someone in an unhealthy relationship? NO NAMES
What could you do to help?

11. Dating Violence Quiz Does Your Partner…?
Isolate you from friends you had before you began dating?
Frequently embarrass you or make fun of you in front of other people?
Use intimidation to make you do what he/she wants?
Make you feel there is “no way out” of the relationship?
Make you perform sexual acts that you don’t enjoy (against your will)?
Do you know someone in an unhealthy relationship? NO NAMES

12. Ending an Unhealthy Relationship
Remember: No one deserves to be abused
Know that: It is never the victim’s fault
Talk to someone you can trust
Get medical attention if you have been physically harmed
Seek safety at your local shelter if needed

13. Ending an Unhealthy Relationship
Get out. Abusive relationships usually get worse over time
If the relationship is hurting you, it’s OK to break up
Get your friends or their friends involved.
If you feel threatened, make sure to have someone present during the break-up