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Women Need C.O.U.P.L.E.
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Women Need C.O.U.P.L.E. Closeness
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Women Need C.O.U.P.L.E. Closeness Openness
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Women Need C.O.U.P.L.E. Closeness Openness Understanding
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Women Need C.O.U.P.L.E. Closeness Openness Understanding Peacemaking
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Women Need C.O.U.P.L.E. Closeness Openness Understanding Peacemaking Loyalty
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Women Need C.O.U.P.L.E. Closeness Openness Understanding Peacemaking Loyalty Esteem
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Women Need Peacemaking:
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Women Need Peacemaking: you let her vent her frustrations and hurts and don't get angry and close her off
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Women Need Peacemaking: you let her vent her frustrations and hurts and don't get angry and close her off you admit you are wrong and apologize by saying, “I'm sorry. Will you forgive me?”
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Women Need Peacemaking: you understand her natural desire to negotiate, compromise, and defer, and you meet her halfway
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Women Need Peacemaking: you understand her natural desire to negotiate, compromise, and defer, and you meet her halfway you try to keep your relationship “up-to-date,” resolving the unresolved and never saying, “Forget it”
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Women Need Peacemaking: you forgive her for any wrongs she confesses
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Women Need Peacemaking: you forgive her for any wrongs she confesses you never nurse bitterness and always reassure her of your love
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Women Need Peacemaking: you forgive her for any wrongs she confesses you never nurse bitterness and always reassure her of your love you pray with her after a hurtful time
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Men Need C.H.A.I.R.S
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Men Need C.H.A.I.R.S Conquest
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Men Need C.H.A.I.R.S Conquest Hierarchy
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Men Need C.H.A.I.R.S Conquest Hierarchy Authority
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Men Need C.H.A.I.R.S Conquest Hierarchy Authority Insight
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Men Need C.H.A.I.R.S Conquest Hierarchy Authority Insight Relationship
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Men Need C.H.A.I.R.S Conquest Hierarchy Authority Insight Relationship Sex
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Men Need Insight:
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Men Need Insight: you tell him upfront you just need his ear; don't complain to him later that he always tries to “fix” you
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Men Need Insight: you tell him upfront you just need his ear; don't complain to him later that he always tries to “fix” you you thank him for his advice without acting insulted or like he doesn't care about your feelings
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Men Need Insight: you recognize his problem-solving approach as his male brand of empathy
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Men Need Insight: you recognize his problem-solving approach as his male brand of empathy you realize your vulnerabilities, especially among males, and value his protection
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Men Need Insight: you counsel him respectfully when you differ with his ideas (you can be right but wrong at the top of your voice)
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Men Need Insight: you counsel him respectfully when you differ with his ideas (you can be right but wrong at the top of your voice) you sometimes let him “fix things” and applaud his solutions
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Men Need Insight: you let him know that you believe God has made us male and female for a purpose and that we need each other
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Men Need Insight: you let him know that you believe God has made us male and female for a purpose and that we need each other you admit that you can sin and thank him for his perception and godly counsel
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Men and Women are Different
C.H.A.I.R.S Conquest Hierarchy Authority Insight Relationship Sex C.O.U.P.L.E. Closeness Openness Understanding Peacemaking Loyalty Esteem
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