1. A Feelings and Faces Presentation
THE HAPPY TO BE ME GROUP
Ashley Van Dyke
Ryan Dubicki
Rebecca Trainor
Palmer Fry
Tessa Lamirande (Therapist)

2. My Feelings NEGATIVE (DOWN FEELINGS) I COMMUNICATE MY FEELINGS
SHY
SCARED
HURT
GUILTY
EMBARRASSED
SAD
ANGRY
WORRIED
POSITIVE (UP FEELINGS)
SILLY
BRAVE
HAPPY
COOL
SURPRISED
I COMMUNICATE MY FEELINGS
VERBALLY (USING MY WORDS)
NONVERBALLY (USING BODY LANGUAGE, FACIAL EXPRESSION, AND BODY POSTURE)

3. Silly Ashley I feel SILLY when…
My friends make me laugh
When I’m playing outside with my friends
When I think about funny things
(I also act silly when I am feeling anxious or guilty)

4. Silly Ryan
I feel SILLY when…
I play outside with my friends

5. Silly Becky I feel SILLY when… I play with my friends
When I am feeling hyper

6. Silly Palmer
I feel SILLY when…
People make funny comments/jokes

7. What a SILLY Group

8. Brave Ashley I feel BRAVE when…
I feel like a super hero (“I have Ashley Power”)
When I think that I can take care of myself
It is night time and I think in my head that I can fight off bad things
When someone makes a mean face at me and I handle it appropriately

9. Brave Ryan
I feel BRAVE when…
I use self-control when I am angry!

10. Brave Becky
I feel BRAVE when…
I go hiking in the woods

11. Brave Palmer
I feel BRAVE when…
I stand up to people who are bullies

12. What a BRAVE Group!

13. Shy Ashley I feel SHY when… I actually do not get shy very often!
I am around people that are older than me…
I actually do not get shy very often!

14. Shy Ryan I feel SHY when…
I have to perform in front of a group (e.g. doing a skit in the talent show)
Meeting new people

15. Shy Becky
I feel SHY when…
I meet new people or go to a new school

16. Shy Palmer I feel SHY when…
I talk about things that make me uncomfortable

17. What a SHY Group?

18. Scared Ashley I feel SCARED when… When I feel SCARED I know I can…
I think that ghosts exists
I am alone in the dark
When I feel SCARED I know I can…
Think about something else

19. Scared Ryan
I feel SCARED when…
I am alone in the dark

20. Scared Becky I feel SCARED when… When I feel SCARED I know I can…
It is dark (e.g. going to the bathroom at night)
People that do bad things (e.g. people you hear about on the news)
When I feel SCARED I know I can…
Tell an adult how I feel
Think positive thoughts
Take a time off

21. Scared Palmer
I feel SCARED when…
I think about getting into trouble

22. Happy Ashley These are the things that make me HAPPY: My pets
My family members
My friends
My birthday
When I know that people love me
Holidays
Having good self-esteem
My teacher and therapist at school
When people compliment me
When people talk and listen to me
I am myself and nothing can change me!

23. Happy Ryan These are the things that make me HAPPY:
People treat me with respect
I am complimented
I earn rewards

24. Happy Becky These are the things that make me HAPPY:
When I earn my stars on my behavior chart
Special Olympic Bowling (trophy)
When my friends include me
Getting along with my family
Cheerleading
When I get compliments
When I can read as long as I want

25. Happy Palmer These are the things that make me HAPPY:
I get to earn rewards for doing well with my contract
Having special titles (e.g. secretary)

26. All Smiles!

27. Hurt Ashley I feel HURT when… When I feel HURT I can…
Someone calls my names and hurts my feelings
If someone pushed me and hurts my body AND my feelings
If I get left out (when my sisters do not want to play with me)
When I feel HURT I can…
Tell a grown-up and TALK IT OUT
Tell the person “I don’t like it when you hurt my feelings or my body.”

28. Hurt Ryan I feel HURT when… Someone calls me name Someone hits me
Someone lies to me

29. Hurt Becky I feel HURT when… When I feel HURT I can…
Someone hurts my feelings (e.g. name calling)
Someone bullies me
If I fall down
When I feel HURT I can…
Take a time off
Talk it out with an adult
Tell the person, “you hurt me”

30. Hurt Palmer
I feel HURT when…
I get a cut or fall down

31. Guilty Ashley I feel GUILTY when I… Hurt my sisters
Call my friends names
When I lie
If someone gets blames for something I did
When I feel GUILTY I should…tell the truth!

32. Guilty Ryan I hurt my friends feelings when I am angry
I feel GUILTY when I…
I hurt my friends feelings when I am angry
I call my mother a name
When I lie

33. Guilty Becky I feel GUILTY when When I feel GUILTY I should
I act dishonest or sneaky
When I feel GUILTY I should
Tell the truth and take responsibility

34. Guilty Palmer
I feel GUILTY when I…
Know that someone broke a rule or didn’t follow a direction

35. Sad Ashley I feel SAD when… When I feel SAD I can…
People tease me or make fun of what I say/do
I argue with my sisters
I think of scary things (e.g. ghosts)
I get left out of a game
When I feel SAD I can…
Tell a grown-up
Tell the person to “Please stop”

36. Sad Ryan
I feel SAD when…
I hurt my mother’s feelings

37. Sad Becky I feel SAD when… When I feel SAD I can…
People hurt my feelings
I do not earn my rewards/privileges
My friends leave me out
When I feel SAD I can…
Talk it out
Time off
STOP…THINK…ACT

38. Sad Palmer
I feel SAD when…
I ask someone to play and they refuse

39. Angry Ashley I get ANGRY when…
My sisters tease me, leave me out, come in my room
People call me names
When I get ANGRY I can:
Tell a grown-up
Work in my anger workbook
Take time off
Walk away from the problem
STOP…THINK…ACT
USE MY WORDS (do not use my hands for hitting)
Relaxation (stress balls, deep breaths, count to 13)

40. Angry Ryan I get ANGRY when… My brother yells at me
My brother “antagonizes” me
When I get ANGRY I can:
Work in my anger workbook
Take time off
STOP…THINK…ACT
USE MY WORDS
Count to 20

41. Angry Becky When I get ANGRY I can: I get ANGRY when…
People act like bullies
I argue with my sister and brother
People lie
When I get ANGRY I can:
Time off (calm down)
STOP…THINK…ACT
Talk it out
Ignore and walk away

42. Angry Palmer I get ANGRY when…
I trust a friend with a secret I have never told anyone except family and they tell

43. What an ANGRY Group!

44. Embarrassed Ashley I feel EMBARRASSED when:
I trip or fall
I make a mistake
When I am EMBARRASSED I can…
TALK IT OUT

45. Embarrassed Ryan I feel EMBARRASSED when: New people come over
I make a mistake

46. Embarrassed Becky I feel EMBARRASSED when:
I do something wrong
When I am EMBARRASSED I can…
Take a time off

47. Embarrassed Palmer I feel EMBARRASSED when:
People talk about inappropriate topics

48. Cool Ashley I feel COOL when… I have a lot of friends I earn my stars
When people like to talk to me
People compliment me
When I earn special rewards

49. Cool Ryan
I feel COOL when…
I drink a cold drink

50. Cool Becky
I feel COOL when…
I earn all my stars

51. Cool Palmer
I feel COOL when…
People compliment me on my progress

52. Surprised Ashley
I feel SURPRISED when…
It is my birthday

53. Surprised Ryan I feel SURPRISED when…
I come home and there is a babysitter

54. Surprised Becky
I feel SURPRISED when…
Someone gives me a bonus token

55. Surprised Palmer I feel SURPRISED when…
My family came home from a vacation early to spend time with me

56. Surprise!

57. Worried Ashley I feel WORRIED when… When I feel WORRIED I can…
I think about ghosts and zombies
I flush the toilet (I think a zombie will come out)
I go to girl scouts that the kids do not like me
When I feel WORRIED I can…
Time off
Think about positive things
Use distraction
Talking to an adult

58. Worried Ryan I feel WORRIED when…
Someone blames me for something I did not do
I am close to earning an RD

59. Worried Becky
I feel WORRIED when…
I do not earn my stars

60. Worried Palmer I feel WORRIED when…
I am kept in suspense about something I obsess about (e.g. status 4)

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