1. Brandon A.
English
Bu Yao

2. Bu Yao Remind me what “Bu Yao” means What do you NOT want right now?
Later today?
This weekend?
Next week?
Next month?
Next year?
In the next five years?
Ever??

3. Bu Yao
How many of us aren’t really sure what we truly want in life or want to be?

4. Bu Yao Purpose – Define What is YOUR purpose?
What were you born to do?
What are you good at?
What would bring the most happiness to you?
Why?

5. How can we find out what we truly want?
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How can we find out what we truly want?

6. One great way to find out what we want is to ask a question.
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One great way to find out what we want is to ask a question.
What question?

7. Bu Yao
What do we NOT want?

8. Bu Yao
If you could say in one word what you DON’T want more of in your life - what would that be?
What do you NOT want for your family?

9. Bu Yao What do you NOT want to happen at your Job? School? Home?
In your life?

10. Bu Yao
What difficulties do you NOT want in work or school?

11. Bu Yao What moments in life do you NOT want?
Which moments happened to you before that you DIDN’T want?

12. Bu Yao
Which problem could you NOT solve this year?

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Which challenge would you NOT want to face again?

14. What do you actually want?
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What do you actually want?

15. Bu Yao Material Things Big house Nice car Fashionable clothes
Money for dining out
A big enough budget for luxury travel
Thin friends
An attractive spouse

16. Bu Yao Self-Confidence Things To neither look nor feel fat
To eat whatever you want without gaining weight
To hold your own in a political conversation
To learn to dance without looking stupid
To be attractive as you age
To be the life of the party, at least once
To know what you want and have the confidence to go after it

17. Bu Yao Adventurous Things Visit every continent
Speak a foreign language — fluently
Learn how to take professional photographs
Go scuba diving, cliff diving, or skydiving
Live in a beautiful, serene place
Volunteer in a disaster zone
Go to a major sports championship, like Wimbledon
Pilot a plane
Spend New Year’s in New York City

18. Bu Yao Spiritual/Emotional Things Have at least one true best friend
Feel relief from social judgment
Reconcile with an enemy
Be remembered in a positive way after death
Know that you made a difference in someone else’s life
Feel important to others
Know yourself and feel centered
Live each day without regret
Quiet self-limiting thoughts

19. Bu Yao Career-Related Things
Reach a fabled level of success that makes you untouchable
Create a positive work/life balance
Feel as capable as others think you are
Be more productive with each minute of the day
Be recognized as talented or even brilliant
Pursue your calling while supporting your family financially
Publish a book
Make enough money to care for aging parents
Write a screenplay that gets picked up as a movie

20. Bu Yao Lifestyle Things
Start every morning with a leisurely cup of coffee instead of a rushed, chugged one
Travel the country in an RV
Have satisfying, regular sex
Not be afraid of intimacy
Have many children and grandchildren
Stay married to the same person
Find meaningful work
Find the best piece of pie, ever
Give your dog a really happy life

21. Bu Yao
Health Things
Grow old without losing your mind or control of your body
Recover from a painful or debilitating disease
Not die from a painful or debilitating disease
Have plenty of energy to enjoy each day
Age gracefully, without wrinkles and without going bald
Find a way to enjoy exercise
Finish a marathon or an ironman triathlon