1. LEADERSHIP FOR LIFE
Bob Rouse—Social Media and Relationships

2. Facial Expressions—what we see and what we display Tone of Voice
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Traditional Social Interaction (for 100,000 years)
Face to Face
Eye Contact
Facial Expressions—what we see and what we display
Tone of Voice
Posture
Gestures
Timing—what they say, how they respond
Intensity

3. Ten Levels of Intimacy in Today’s Communications
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Ten Levels of Intimacy in
Today’s Communications

4. 550 BC Mail 1440 Printing 1792 Telegraph 1890s Phone and Radio 1930 TV
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Social Media—over time
550 BC Mail
Printing
Telegraph
1890s Phone and Radio TV
Internet/Web Apps

5. Other Firsts First E-mail First Website First AOL Instant Message
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Other Firsts
First
First Website
First AOL Instant Message
First Book Sold on Amazon
First Sentence Uttered on Skype
First Facebook person
First YouTube Video
First Tweet

6. LEADERSHIP FOR LIFE
BLS: Avg American spends less than 4 minutes a day in hosting/attending social events

7. Screen time---Findings
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Screen time---Findings
Negative effect on understanding verbal cues
Risk of obesity, mental illness
Co-parenting with Alexa
Cell phones interfere with sleep
Decision fatigue
Gamification of dating
Commoditization of people

8. LEADERSHIP FOR LIFE
Infobesity
Recognize that we Crave food and information (physical and social needs)
Health requires avoiding a homogeneous diet
Affirmation feels better that truth
Be aware of Brand Loyalty—be it VW or Kraft or Hannity or Medow
Be aware of highly processed food or information—distilled/substitutes for cost/novelty
Recognize fast food and fast information
Avoid Binging

9. Healthy Eating Platter
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Healthy Eating Platter
Healthy Mind Platter

10. Infobesity No newspapers, magazines, talk radio.
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Infobesity
No newspapers, magazines, talk radio.
No News websites whatsoever.
No television at all, except one hour/day of pleasure viewing, mystery or real sports ( e.g. World Cup).
No reading of books, except The Great Books or fiction/ pleasure reading before bed.
No web surfing at work except as required to complete an assigned task.
Listening to classical music is alright any time.
Performing light exercise and meditation.
Spend at least 4 hours a day out of doors.
Diagnostic: am I learning every day—or just reading/listening/watching a stream of information or entertainment

11. LEADERSHIP FOR LIFE
Rx from Dr. Carl
Good Belly
Heart Song