1. Bell ringer 9/14/16
Kanye is walking down the crowded streets of New York City, when he sees Taylor Swift fall down after her heel gets caught in a subway grate.
Apply the following terms to the situation
Bystander Effect
Reciprocity Norm
Social Exchange Theory

2. Attraction

3. Speed dating Name Favorite Subject What did you do over the summer
Favorite TV show
Favorite place in the whole world
Favorite toy as a child
If you had a million dollars, what would you spend it on?
Is there a story behind your name?
Why Ms. Moberg is the coolest teacher EVER

4. Speed Dating survey

5. Laws of attraction- brain games

6. Proximity
Mere Exposure Effect- repeated exposure to novel stimuli increases our liking for them
Work
Music
Classmates
teammates

7. Physical Attractiveness
VERY IMPORTANT
Attractive people
Perceptions: healthy, happy, sensitive, successful and more socially skilled
More likely to make a favorable impression on possible employers, tend to be more successful in their jobs
Penalty for being plain/obese…premium for being attractive

8. Attractiveness continued
No bearing on their happiness or self-esteem
Few of us view ourselves as unattractive
Very attractive people are sometimes suspicious that the praise for their work may simply be a reaction to their looks

9. Beauty is culturally bound
But….we all like symmetry

10. similarity Opposites “retract”
We like people who have similar interests, the more alike people are…the more their liking endures
Couples have more in common than random pairings

11. Romantic love Companionate love Passionate love #goals #theoffice
Deep affectionate attachment
Passionate love
Arousal
#goals #theoffice
#jim&pam4ever

12. equity
Equity- condition in which people receive from a relationship in proportion to what they give to it
Self-disclosure- revealing intimate aspects of onself to others

13. aggression

14. What is it?
Aggression is any physical or verbal behavior that is intended to hurt or destroy

15. Influences of aggression
Genetics
Animals can be bred to be violent/ we continue to search for specific genetic markers
Neural
No single part of the brain is solely responsible for controlling aggression
But we do have certain systems and areas that will inhibit/exhibit aggression if stimulated
Ex) amygdala/frontal lobes
Biochemical
Testosterone plays a major role here (humans less sensitive to hormone changes than animals
High testosterone correlates with irritability, assertiveness, impulsiveness, and low tolerance for frustration

16. Psychological and social cultural factors
Frustration-aggression principle: frustration (blocking of an attempt to achieve some goal- creates anger, which can generate aggression
Frustrating situations, hot temperatures, physical pain, personal insults, foul odors, cigarette smoke, crowding, etc, can evoke hostility
Reinforcement/modeling: exposure to events/how we learn things
Media Models
Violent video games, pornography, X rated films