1. Why Parenthood. (What are sound reasons for wanting to become a parent

2. Unsound Reasons
1. Marriage is in trouble. Maybe this will solve our problems.
2. A baby is someone who will love me and belong to me.
3. I feel like a nobody. Being a parent will make me somebody.

3. More Unsound Reasons
4. I want someone to take care of me when I am old.
5. Our parents want grandchildren.

4. Sound Reasons
1. Having children will add depth to our relationship which is already strong.
2. I want to give a baby my love and care.
3. I feel good about myself. I believe that parenthood will be a meaningful and rewarding experience.

5. Sound Reasons
4. I want to experience the special bond between parent and child that lasts for a lifetime.
5. I love children and I am ready for the sacrifice and work it takes to be an effective parent.

6. Becoming a Parent Requires:
1. FINANCIAL PREPAREDNESS
Don’t just live your life in a survival mode. Prepare yourselves so you can enjoy life with your child.

7. Becoming a Parent Requires:
EMOTIONAL PREPAREDNESS
You need to be able to put a child’s needs in front of your own.

8. Becoming a Parent Requires
SOCIAL PREPAREDNESS
You are a family now! Friends and social events need to take a back seat.

9. Becoming a Parent Requires
PHYSICAL PREPAREDNESS
Know how to take good care of your health as well as the health needs of your child.

10. Parenting Styles AUTHORITARIAN (very controlling; in charge)

11. PERMISSIVE Allows the child to discipline him/herself

12. DEMOCRATIC/AUTHORITATIVE AllOW children to have input and share in family decision making