1. Sexual Risk Avoidance 2018 -19 8th Grade
Patricia Hiner, RN
Kaitlin Patterson

2. Video – Episodes 3 & 4 Vocabulary:
Abstinence – the deliberate and voluntary act to refrain from a particular thing – in this lesson sexual activity and alcohol use
Self-Control – the ability to control your own behavior, especially in terms of reactions and impulses
Respect – holding in high esteem or honor
Responsible – the trust a person assumes for doing what is asked of them
Accountable - being answerable to a superior authority for one’s words and actions
Secondary Virgin – deciding to stop sexual activity until marriage after once being sexually involved

3. Pure and Simple & Faithful Partners
DAY 2

4. Pure and Simple
Discussion

5. What happened in the third video?
Luke and Tiana in the park –
What are a teenage couple’s responsibilities to each other in the building of a relationship?
Jamal and Uncle Frank –
Yardstick Philosophy
Luke and Tiana in her bedroom –
What are Luke’s intentions?
How could the situation be prevented?
What are some possible consequences of their choices?
Luke and Tiana in the park:
Luke wants to get some “action” and feels “put off” when she has to leave.
Show respect for each other by protecting each other’s self-worth, cooperating with each other’s boundaries. Luke is being self-centered and thinking only about what he wants and not Tiana.
Jamal and Uncle Frank:
Uncle Frank discusses the Community Standard (Yardstick Philosophy) – COMMITMENT FOR LIFE; RESPECT; RESPONSIBILITY; ACCOUNTABLE; BECOMING PARENTS
Luke and Tiana in her bedroom:
Luke brought a condom, planning on sex
Have a plan and share the plan
Found out by parents
Friends finding out
STIs
Pregnancy

6. What happened in the third video?
Whitney and her mother –
Parent/adult expectations
In the school cafeteria –
What if one person in the relationship does not have sexual self- control or boundaries about drugs, alcohol, or tobacco?
Whitney and Tiana in the restroom –
Luke at his house on computer –
Jamal and Whitney with Whitney’s mom –
Whitney and her mother:
Concern about Tiana and Jamal’s break up. Tiana wanting to have sex to show love. Talk at school is parents expect teens to have sex. Mom says not all parent’s expect their teens to be sexually active. TALK TO YOUR ADULT!
Cafeteria:
Tiana wants to practice abstinence, but Luke makes fun of her. Luke thinks Whitney is a “goody-goody.” Whitney stands up for what she believes is important.
Girls restroom:
Tiana is concerned about be sexually active with Luke. All Luke wants is sex. Secondary virginity – commitment to not be sexually active until in a committed relationship. Bodily virginity can’t be returned; but, a person can begin again spiritually, intellectually and emotionally.
Luke:
What do you think he’s watching? It keeps his mind filled with sexual images and the desire to be satisfied. Hard to break away from watching.
Jamal and Whitney:
They each have personal boundaries and know what to expect

7. Faithful Partners Discussion Vocabulary:
Infatuation – a strong affectionate attraction of one person for another person that may be short lived
Love – the unchanging care for another person through good and hard times.
Media – means of communication (video, radio, television, DVD, CD, I-pod, books, magazines, theatre, graphic/illustrative artistry, and internet).
Choice – using the will to act in a certain way
Consequences – the result of decisions made, an action or inaction
Integrity – doing the right thing when no one is looking
Discussion

8. What happened in the fourth video?
At the Rec Center –
Luke
Jamal
Whitney
Tiana
Why is it important to have goals?
Jamal and Whitney
Positive risks
Negative risks
At the Rec Center –
Luke:
wants to be a model (self-centered)
Jamal:
pro football player, married 4 kids
Whitney:
Plans to be an educator, married, life long commitment through good and hard times
Tiana:
Wants to be an actress – will that be an easy job to get?
Jamal and Whitney:
Positive risks – ask someone you like out, stand up for your values/standards, do your class assignments, job interviews, enroll in college classes that are challenging, be involved in activities (dance, art, music), learn self-control through sports
Negative risks – Lie, cheat on school work, steal, use tobacco or illegal drugs, go to unsupervised parties, engage in risky behavior including sexual activity

9. What happened in the fourth video?
Tiana calls Whitney
Tiana in her bedroom –
What message did Tiana get and from whom?
Jamal and Luke playing cards –
What’s the difference between “love” and “infatuation”?
What would you look for in a life-long partner in marriage?
Phone call:
Leaves a worried message. Not sure why she is anxious other than her relationship with Luke
Tiana:
Future self visits and reminders her choices have consequences. We can make choices, but we can’t choose the consequences. We can shoplift and we may or may not get caught. Others may not know but you know.
Jamal and Luke:
Luke lacks integrity (lies, cheats). Cookie – eating the filling of the cookie is like taking Tiana’s love and not being interested in a relationship. He is using Tiana.
Infatuation: a strong affectionate attraction of one person for another person that may be short lived.
Love: The unchanging care for another person through good and hard times; wanting the best for another person.
Characteristics of a life-long partner:
Similar interests
Desire for kids
How a person reacts to stress
Personal job goal
Indecisive and/or self-centered
Faithful/loyal
Respects parents/adults
Considerate of others feelings and desires

10. Media Influences How are you influenced by media?
Print/TV/Web/Other ( ):
See through clothes, extremely tight clothes, etc. (J Lo, Victoria’s Secret)
Minimal/no consequences of infidelity (TV shows, magazine ad, etc.)
Violence (online games)
Movie/TV/Other (music):
Partial nudity
Suggestive talk/lyrics
Lies
Materialistic
Online Gaming:
Sharing personal info with people you don’t really know

11. Would you accept this “friend request” on your social media?
Robby Cox, 15, Bowling Green, KY, likes computers and tech – especially online video games.
Jace Robinson, 15, from Olathe, KS, likes football, Xbox and girls.
Karlie Smith, 14, from Tulsa, OK, likes basketball (starting guard for the varsity girls team
Cooper Clark, 16, Chicago, IL, likes music (Foo Fighters!, almost any rock
Lucas Meier, 13, from NY, NY, likes Wii, golf, baseball or any sports.
True Identities:
Robby Cox - Robby Cox, 15 from Bowling Green, KY. Just launched his first YouTube gaming channel and uses multiple social media sites to boost followers.
Jace Robinson – John Robinson of Olathe, KS is known as “one of the first Internet killers.” He met and chatted with young women online and lured them to hotels. He killed at least five women and kept their bodies stored in barrels in his extra storage unit.
Karlie Smith – Karlie Smith is a fourteen year old girl from Tulsa, OK. Karlie is excited to be the starting guard for her high school’s varsity basketball team.
Cooper Clark – Cooper Clark, 16 year old from Chicago, IL. Cooper is a huge fan of The Voice and plans to compete in the future.
Lucas Meier – Sonny Szeto, 22 of New Jersey City, NJ. Szeto traveled from New Jersey to Connecticut to molest an 11 year old girl in her room while her parents slept.