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But Why? When You’re Losing, Everything Hurts…
Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Losses Make Us… Emotionally stuck… Mentally defeated… Insecure…
When You’re Losing, Everything Hurts… But Why? Losses Make Us… Emotionally stuck… Mentally defeated… Insecure… Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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When You’re Losing, Everything Hurts…
But Why? “The quality that distinguishes a successful person from one who is otherwise like him is the capacity to manage disappointment and loss” - John Maxwell Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Loss Creates Traps: The Mistake Trap The Fatigue Trap
When You’re Losing, Everything Hurts… But Why? Loss Creates Traps: The Mistake Trap – Hold us back The Fatigue Trap – Wear us out The Comparison Trap – Cause us to feel inferior Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Loss Creates Traps: The Timing Trap The Inspiration Trap
When You’re Losing, Everything Hurts… But Why? Loss Creates Traps: The Timing Trap – Make us hesitate The Inspiration Trap – De-motivate us The Rationalization Trap – Allow us to lose perspective Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Loss Creates Traps: The Perfection Trap The Expectation Gap
When You’re Losing, Everything Hurts… But Why? Loss Creates Traps: The Perfection Trap – Cause us to question ourselves The Expectation Gap – Highlight the difficulties The Fairness Trap – Cause us to ask, “Why me?” Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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From A Loss, We Have A Choice
When You’re Losing, Everything Hurts… The First Loss From A Loss, We Have A Choice The most important person you will ever talk to is yourself… so be careful what you say The most important person you will evaluate is yourself…so be careful what you think The most important person you will love is yourself…so be careful what you do Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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“Each time you judge yourself, you break your own heart”
When You’re Losing, Everything Hurts… The First Loss “Each time you judge yourself, you break your own heart” - Kripalvanada Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Loss Will Affect: Losses Never Leave Us The Same
When You’re Losing, Everything Hurts… Losses Never Leave Us The Same Loss Will Affect: The speed of your success The way you succeed The people who are a part of your success The size of the loss can have a tremendous impact Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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If You Learn Nothing From It
When You’re Losing, Everything Hurts… Turning Losses Into Gain A Loss Is Only A Total Lose If You Learn Nothing From It Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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What We Are Ready To Learn
When You’re Losing, Everything Hurts… Turning Losses Into Gain We Only Learn What We Are Ready To Learn Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Are you ready to learn? Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
Just Ahead READY TO LEARN POP 1 Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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HUMILITY The Spirit of Learning Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Pride Goes Before A Fall
HUMILITY – The Spirit of Learning Pride Goes Before A Fall Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Pride Humility is concerned with WHO is right
HUMILITY – The Spirit of Learning Pride Goes Before A Fall Pride is concerned with WHO is right Humility is concerned with WHAT is right Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Pride Produces: Blame Denial Closed Mindedness Rigidity Insecurity
HUMILITY – The Spirit of Learning Pride Goes Before A Fall Pride Produces: Blame Denial Closed Mindedness Rigidity Insecurity Isolation Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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What is your P.A.Q? Pride Goes Before A Fall
HUMILITY – The Spirit of Learning Pride Goes Before A Fall What is your P.A.Q? (Pride Awareness Quotient) Do you tend to believe you know it all? Do you tend to think you should be in charge? Do you sometimes believe the rules don’t apply to you? Do you believe you should not fail? Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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What is your P.A.Q? Pride Goes Before A Fall
HUMILITY – The Spirit of Learning Pride Goes Before A Fall What is your P.A.Q? (Pride Awareness Quotient) Do you tend to believe you get things done all by yourself? Do you tend to believe you are better than others with less talent or status? Do you think you are as important, or more important that the organization? Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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The Good Become the BEST Through Humility
HUMILITY – The Spirit of Learning The Good Become the BEST Through Humility Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Humility Produces: Good To Best Through Humility
HUMILITY – The Spirit of Learning Good To Best Through Humility Humility Produces: The ability to make changes The ability to hold on to values The ability to model grace even when winning The right spirit An ability to grow in the face of losses Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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HUMILITY – The Spirit of Learning
Good To Best Through Humility “A failure is a man who has blundered, but is not able to cash in on the experience” - Elbert Hubbard Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Ask yourself these questions:
HUMILITY – The Spirit of Learning Good To Best Through Humility Ask yourself these questions: - What went wrong? - When did it go wrong? - Why did it go wrong? Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Ask yourself these questions:
HUMILITY – The Spirit of Learning Good To Best Through Humility Ask yourself these questions: - How did I contribute to making it go wrong? - What can I learn from this experience? - How will apply what I have learned in the future? Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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IMPROVEMENT The Focus of Learning
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Blow Up Cover Up Back Up Give Up
IMPROVEMENT – The Focus of Learning Improvement Needed When Improvement Is Needed: Most people choose UP… Blow Up Cover Up Back Up Give Up Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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The Stone Age did not end because people ran out of stones
IMPROVEMENT – The Focus of Learning Insights On Improvement Consider This… No got rock What do? The Stone Age did not end because people ran out of stones Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Improving Yourself Is The First Step…
IMPROVEMENT – The Focus of Learning Insights On Improvement Improving Yourself Is The First Step… To Improving Everything Else Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Improving Yourself Is The First Step…
IMPROVEMENT – The Focus of Learning Insights On Improvement Improving Yourself Is The First Step… Be more concerned with personal growth than success - The capacity to develop and improve is what distinguishes leaders from followers Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Improvement Requires Moving Out Of Our Comfort Zone
IMPROVEMENT – The Focus of Learning Insights On Improvement Improvement Requires Moving Out Of Our Comfort Zone Without taking the next step, we remain frozen in fear - Security does not move us forward - Fail as fast as you can - Innovate and Accommodate Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Improvement Is Not Satisfied With Quick Fixes
IMPROVEMENT – The Focus of Learning Insights On Improvement Improvement Is Not Satisfied With Quick Fixes Destination Disease – doing just enough to get by - Some have so lowered their expectations that they achieve mediocrity and call it success - Improvement is a series of small steps Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Improvement Is A Daily Commitment
IMPROVEMENT – The Focus of Learning Insights On Improvement Improvement Is A Daily Commitment A habit, not an event - Intentional, not an accident - Asks, What did I learn today? How did I grow today? What will I do differently? Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Make Improvement Now: Insights On Improvement
IMPROVEMENT – The Focus of Learning Insights On Improvement Make Improvement Now: Decide you are worth improving - Pick one area – don’t try to do it all - Learn as fast as you can after a loss - Become the BEST version of you Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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The Catalyst of Learning
ADVERSITY The Catalyst of Learning Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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My prediction for this Lesson…
ADVERSITY – The Catalyst of Learning My prediction for this Lesson… PAIN! Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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How Do You Respond To Adversity?
ADVERSITY – The Catalyst of Learning How Do You Respond To Adversity? … go all soft? Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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How Do You Respond To Adversity?
ADVERSITY – The Catalyst of Learning How Do You Respond To Adversity? … become hardened? Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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How Do You Respond To Adversity? … make things around you better?
ADVERSITY – The Catalyst of Learning How Do You Respond To Adversity? … make things around you better? Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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“Circumstance does not make the man
ADVERSITY – The Catalyst of Learning Advantages Of Adversity “Circumstance does not make the man It reveals him to him.” - James Allen Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Lessons Learned From Adversity
ADVERSITY – The Catalyst of Learning Advantages Of Adversity Lessons Learned From Adversity The road to success is not always a road - Trying times are not the times to stop trying - Opens doors to success if we look - Signals a coming success Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Lessons Learned From Adversity
ADVERSITY – The Catalyst of Learning Advantages Of Adversity Lessons Learned From Adversity There can be great profit in the pain - Successful people expect and plan for pain - Adversity is either a stepping-stone or a tombstone - Pain is not always optional, but misery is Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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ADVERSITY – The Catalyst of Learning
“May God bless you with enough foolishness to believe that you can make a difference in this word, so that you can do what others claim is impossible.” - Franciscan Prayer Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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WINNING ISN’T EVERYTHING, BUT LEARNING IS
Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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WINNING ISN’T EVERYTHING, BUT LEARNING IS
Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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“Success is a lousy teacher.
WINNING ISN’T EVERYTHING, BUT LEARNING IS Winning can… “Success is a lousy teacher. It makes smart people think they can’t lose” - Bill Gates Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Be A Distraction To Success
WINNING ISN’T EVERYTHING, BUT LEARNING IS Winning Can… Be A Distraction To Success “Been There – Done That” When a milestone becomes a tombstone The Banquet Tour Telling more about your successes than actually pursuing them Success Guarantees Success Nothing guarantees repeated success Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Be A Distraction To Success
WINNING ISN’T EVERYTHING, BUT LEARNING IS Winning Can… Be A Distraction To Success The Momentum Myth When you are winning, don’t stop! One Hit Wonders We should build off of yesterday, not live off of it The Entitlement Mentality You don’t “inherit” success, you earn it Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Be A Distraction To Success
WINNING ISN’T EVERYTHING, BUT LEARNING IS Winning Can… Be A Distraction To Success Playing Not To Lose Sometimes winning makes one too cautious The Arrival Plateau If you have arrived, time to throw dirt over you Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Change Our Thinking Learning Is Possible - Always be a student
WINNING ISN’T EVERYTHING, BUT LEARNING IS Learning Is Possible Change Our Thinking - Always be a student - Embrace Creativity Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Change Our Thinking Learning Is Possible
WINNING ISN’T EVERYTHING, BUT LEARNING IS Learning Is Possible Change Our Thinking - Real Learning is defined as behavior change - Most of already know more than we are prepared to act upon - Continual learning is a result of continually failing and learning Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Focus And Risk As You Win And Learn
WINNING ISN’T EVERYTHING, BUT LEARNING IS Learning Is Possible Focus And Risk As You Win And Learn STRENGTH ZONE COMFORT ZONE RESULT Outside Your Strength Zone Outside Your Comfort Zone Poor Performance Winning Impossible Inside Your Comfort Zone Mediocre Performance Inside Your Strength Zone Good Performance Winning Possible Great Performance Winning Is Continual Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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Or Fail and Win Fail and Lose …Choose Wisely
Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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…by the way Sometimes You Win, Sometimes You Learn
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