1. Defining Relative Clauses
Unit 7 Relationships
Defining Relative Clauses

2. Intro – page ext. Are you a people person? (sociable?)
Do you ever need your own time / space ? When?
What type of things do you like / dislike about yourself when you are in social situations? With family / friends / others?
Do you have trouble breaking the ice? How do you feel meeting new people?

3. What are some things that (are necessary for a good) relationship with:
A Friend? (girlfriend/boyfriend)
An English/class practice partner?
A boss / your teachers?

4. Subject Relative clauses
Nina is a woman. She sits across from me.
Nina had a company. It planned weddings.
Main Clause Subject Relative Clause
Nina is a woman who / that sits across from me.
Nina had a company that / which planned weddings.

5. Object Relative clauses
Charlie is someone that I can trust.
Jen talks about the things that she’s doing.
What does “that” refer back to?
What is the subject ?
What is the object?

6. Relative clauses & pronouns
Jen plays in a rock band that’s really hot right now.
Nina is an interesting woman who sits across from me at work.
Angela’s a new friend I met through Mike.
Go back through the article and find the R.C’s

7. Man and the coat are the SUBJECT of the second sentence.
I met the man. He works in the bank.
I bought the coat. It was in the shop window.
So we use:
Who = people  That/which = things    Where = places
I met the man who works in the bank. 
I bought the coat that was in the shop window.
The combined sentences plus the relative pronoun is called a relative clause.
Person/thing = subject

8. the man and the coat are the OBJECT of the second sentence.
I met the man. Susan loves him.
I bought the coat. Susan wanted it.
Person/thing = object
I met the man who Susan loves.                      
I bought the coat that Susan wanted.
When the relative clause defines the subject a relative pronoun must be used. However, when the relative clause defines the object, the relative pronoun can be missed out:
I met the man Susan loves.                             
I bought the coat Susan wanted.

9. p67 1. who / that 2. who / that 3. which / that 4. which / that

10. Linkages:- Discuss opinions + (advice / necessity / preferable) p.67A
Example. (Info changed ?)
I have a friend who calls me a lot to complain about her life. It’s really annoying!
Have you talked to her about this? If I were you, I think you ought to ...

11. A. Who is your closest friend? How did you meet?
B. My closest friend is Peter. He’s a guy (who) I met working at Dong-A.
Why do you like him?
He’s someone who/that has a great sense of humour and great perspective on life.
A. Does he? Why’s that?
B. Peter is a person who thinks that people are basically good and acts accordingly. He’s also someone who is great to hangout with on a Saturday night.
Does he have a girlfriend?
B. When I first met him he had a girlfriend who was not suited to him. She had a terrible temper that drove him crazy. But now he has a fiancé that is going to Australia to become a nurse.
** Making leading questions for this takes some practice.

12. Leading Questions Who is someone (who/that) you ___ ?
What is a place where you ___ ?
What is a company that you____ ?
Where is a place that you ______ ?
Is there a guy who __________ ?
Are there any (people/ things / places) that __ ?
Do you know anyone that ___________ ?
What do you think about _______ ?
Was there a () + that + ___ ?
Remember to answer back with (who/that/which/where)
Eg. (He/she/name/It)+is __ (someone/thing, a/the place, a/the company) + (that/which/who/where) + I/they + _________________

13. Picture discussion
Find a couple of photo’s on your phone and talk to other people about it …
Who is that? That is … who … / She is someone that …
Where is that? That is a … where …

14. Phrasal Verbs Main verb + particle.
Go + up / down / in / out / on / off
Sometimes you can guess the meaning (individual words) and other times you cannot!
Fly back / write back
Get along / work out / settle down.
Who don’t you get along with?
(How) Did it work out?
So, did it settle down?

15. Other Common Phrasal verbs
1. Add up
a- To be added together and equal the expected or correct total. Example: “We added up the apples: there were 12″
b-To make sense : to seem to be logical or true. Example: “Her story didn’t add up, I think she was lying, it didn’t make sense”

16. Other Common Phrasal verbs
Bring up
a- To take care of and teach (a child who is growing up). Example: “Their grandparents brought them up because their parents were always travelling”
b- To mention (something) when talking : to start to talk about (something). Example: “Don’t bring up the fight again, please!”

17. Other Common Phrasal verbs
Call off
a- To stop doing or planning to do (something) . Example: “Maria called off the wedding, she decided she didn’t love him”
b- To cause or tell (a person or animal) to stop attacking, chasing, etc. Example: “Call off your dog! He’s attacking my cat”

18. Other Common Phrasal verbs
Carry on
a- To continue to do what you have been doing Example: “Sorry I interrupted, carry on talking!”
b- To behave or speak in an excited or foolish way. Example: “The little boy was carrying on: shouting and kicking all day long”

19. Other Common Phrasal verbs
Come across
a- To seem to have a particular quality or character : to make a particular impression. Example: “Julia came across as a bit bossy”
b- To be expressed to someone. Example: “I tried to sound happy but it came across as over-excited”
c- To meet or find (something or someone) by chance. Example: “Luis was leaving the fruit shop and he came across Tom, what a coincidence”

20. Other Common Phrasal verbs
Come up with
a- To get or think of (something that is needed or wanted). Example: “We finally came up with a solution to the problem!”

21. Other Common Phrasal verbs
Get away
a- To go away from a place. Example: “I can0t wait to get away from the city”
b- To avoid being caught : to escape Example: “The thieves managed to get away in a stolen car”
c- To not be criticized or punished for (something). Example: “Yvonne is always lying, I can’t understand how she gets away with it”

22. Other Common Phrasal verbs
Get over
a- To stop being controlled or bothered by (something, such as a problem or feeling). Example: “I got over my fear of flying”
b- To stop feeling unhappy about (something). Example: “Finally, Kylie got over her ex-boyfriend”
c- To become healthy again after (an illness). Example: “Have you heard? Dave has gotten over the flu”

23. Other Common Phrasal verbs
Give up –
a- To stop an activity or effort : to admit that you cannot do something and stop trying Example: “We all gave up smoking on January 1st”

24. Other Common Phrasal verbs
Go on –
a- To continue. Example: “They landed in Paris and then went on to Montpellier”
b- To go or travel to a place before another person or group that is with you. Example: “You go on to the restaurant, I’ll come in 10 minutes”
c- To happen Example: “What’s going on? What’s happening?”
d- Used in speech to urge someone to do something Example: “Go on! Try it, it’s delicious”

25. Other Common Phrasal verbs
Pull over –
a- To move a vehicle to the side of the road and stop. Example: “That looks like a lovely restaurant, can you pull the car over and park?”
Put off
a- To decide that (something) will happen at a later time : postpone. Example: “Graham was so tired he put the shoppin off until next week”
b- To cause (someone) to dislike someone or something Example: “You’re putting me off my food, stop talking about insects!”
Put up with
a- To allow (someone or something unpleasant or annoying) to exist or happen. Example: “My mother won’t put up with my sisters or I swearing”

26. Linkages: Who is someone that you get along with?
Where is the place that you grew up / moved away from?
Do you know anyone that went away to college?
Do you have(Do you know anyone who had) an old flame that came back?
Do you have any friends that have already settled down?
Would you make up (get back together) with a guy who let you down?
Have any of your friends had bad break ups?

27. Phrasal verbs – 69 A & B
It’s more fun to go out with someone you know than to go on a blind date.
Yes, I agree. I have a girlfriend who I met long before we started dating. (OR)
B. Yes, I agree. There was a guy I know who went out on a blind date and was never seen again. (OR)
B. Yes, I agree. People who want to find someone had better look closer to home (not in their home); in their extended circle of friends. (Or)
B. Yes, you can get along better with someone you know but if you break up then it will be hard to make up & get along with them again.
A. Oh yes ... But ... What happens if they don’t work out?

28. P69 C 1. opinion + (echo the q) I have a friend that ___
Advice (I think that people (ought to / etc) + _
2. If he/she is someone that

29. Back to P.67c
Do you have any friends that you’ve met through other friends?
Yeah, I guess. Sue is a girl who I met through Peter.
A. How do they know each other?
It turns out that they grew up together but never went out. He liked her a little bit but she probably just didn’t see it.
A. How do you feel about her?
We hang out occasionally and get along pretty well. She’s someone that I want to see more of though … I am going to ask her out again soon …
A. Yes, but you ought to talk to Peter about it if you decide to make a move.

30. Ext. p67c
Tell your partner about an old school friend that used to be in your circle of friends that no longer is... And who you would like to see again.
So, who is someone you would like to catch up with?
Umm, Mike is a long lost friend who ...

31. Part C. Softening comments
Use softening comments to talk about these things.
I think parents need to be strict.
You should always think of others before yourself.