1. the decision making process
D.E.C.I.D.E.
the decision making process

2. come to a resolution in the mind as a result of consideration.
de·cide
come to a resolution in the mind as a result of consideration.
make a choice from a number of options.
Synonyms: resolve, determine, make up one's mind, make a decision

3. decisions, decisions… Every day you make thousands of them…
Sometimes they are minor:
What should I eat for breakfast?
What should I wear to school today?
Sometimes they are major:
Should I get involved in a romantic relationship?
Should I check my phone while driving?

4. DECIDE
There is a process called DECIDE that can help you think through bigger decisions.
Each letter of the word DECIDE stands for a step to help you make choices in your life.

5. Sam
For notes today, we will use SAM as an example for the DECIDE process.

6. D
Consider the issue you are facing and state the issue clearly.
Define the Problem

7. 1. Define the problem. Sam wants friends.
Sam moved to WLHS from the east coast in the middle of the school year and has struggled to make friends.

8. Explore the options/solutions
Make a list of all of the possible options for solving your problem.
Explore the options/solutions

9. 2. Explore options/solutions
Go to a party
Connect on social media
Say “Hi!” to new people at school
Join a sport or club
Go to a school event (like a football game)

10. Consider the Consequences
One by one, think through what might happen if you were to choose an option on your list.
Include both positive and negative consequences
NOTE: There should be a pro and a con to each potential solution
Consider the Consequences

11. Positive Consequences Negative Consequences
Solutions
Positive Consequences
(Benefits)
Negative Consequences
(Risks)
Go to a party
Could make new friends
Maybe unsafe
May have drugs/alcohol
Connect with someone online (social media)
Could find a new interest/hobby
Online predators
Cyber bullying
Identity theft
Say “Hi!” to new people at school
People may start talking to you
Could be rejected
People might make fun of you
Join a sport or club
Improve health
Learn a new skill
Might get injured
Might not be good at it
Go to a school event (like a football game)
Have fun
Free stuff (food/spirit gear)
Might not have any fun
Don’t get free stuff

12. I
Consider your long term goals as well as the beliefs of your family and culture.
Consider your own and others’ health and safety, and your self-respect.
Identify choices that match your values.
Identify your values

13. Values
Your values are the things that you believe are important in the way you live.
They (should) determine your priorities, and, deep down, they're probably the measures you use to tell if your life is turning out the way you want it to.
Dependable
Fun-loving
Reliable
Adventurous
Loyal
Motivated
Committed
Positive
Open- minded
Optimistic
Inspiring
Consistent
Passionate
Honest
Respectful
Efficient
Athletic
Innovative
Educated
Creative
Humorous

14. So what fits Sam’s values?
4. Identify your values
Sam’s values-
Friendship
Trust
Reputation
Health/Safety
Family
So what fits Sam’s values?
“Say Hi!”
Join a club/sport
Go to school event
Maybe connecting online???
What doesn’t fit these values?
Crashing a party

15. D
Use the information you have collected to compare options. Decide which is the best for you.
Make a plan to act on your decision.
What are the steps you need to take?
Decide
and Act

16. 5. Decide and Act Join a club/sport Sam’s decision is to:
Sam will take these steps to act on the decision…
Research options
Go to club fair
Practice (if needed)
Try out for the team

17. E Evaluate your results
Sometime after you have put your decision into action, take time to review it.
If you could do it over again, what would you do it differently?
How has it affected your life? Others?
What did you learn?
If you can still change some things for the better.. Do it now.
Evaluate your results

18. You will need a piece of note book paper
Time to Practice
You will need a piece of note book paper