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Habit 5: Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood
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To communicate effectively with me, you must first understand me.
Habit 5—Principle Paradigm To communicate effectively with me, you must first understand me. Result Behavior 5 107 Habit Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood
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Ineffective: I listen with the intent to reply.
Habit 5—Paradigms Ineffective: I listen with the intent to reply. Effective: I listen with the intent to understand. 5 107 Habit Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood
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xQ Tells You… “We genuinely listen to each other, honestly seeking to understand the viewpoints of others.” 48% 5 107 Habit Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood
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Diagnose Before You Prescribe
Video Diagnose Before You Prescribe 5 107 Habit Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood
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Advising: Giving counsel, advice, and solutions to problems.
Autobiographical Responses Advising: Giving counsel, advice, and solutions to problems. Probing: Asking questions from our own frame of reference or agenda. Interpreting: Explaining another’s motives and behavior based on our own experience; trying to figure people out. Evaluating: Judging, and either agreeing or disagreeing. 5 109 Habit Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood
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Autobiographical Responses
Video Autobiographical Responses 5 109 Habit Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood
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Empathic Listening Video 5 110 Habit
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Empathic Listening Empathic Listening is reflecting what a person feels and says in your own words. It is not listening to advise, counsel, reply, refute, solve, fix, change, judge, agree, disagree, question, analyze, or figure out. 5 110 Habit Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood
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Ears Eyes Heart “To Listen With a Virtuous Heart” 5 110 Habit
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Reading the Signs 5 111 Habit
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Stop and listen empathically.
Watch the Signals Stop and listen empathically. Slow down. Watch and be ready to listen empathically. Go forward and seek to be understood. 5 111 Habit Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood
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“You feel ________________________ about _________________________.”
How to Listen Empathically Try it! “You feel ________________________ about _________________________.” 5 112 Habit Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood
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Seek to Be Understood From the Other’s Perspective
I’m excited to move into the Latin American marketplace. I honestly don’t think you could find a better supplier than Indiva. Our quality manufacturing standards are second to none, with only a .2 percent defect rate. Our considerable investment in customer service means that we are leaders in product satisfaction. Please let me know your decision. I look forward to hearing from you by June 10. 5 115 Habit Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood
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Please contact us with any issues you may have.
Suggested Revision You’ll benefit from the high quality of Indiva products. Your customers will experience second-to-none quality with defect rates of only .2 percent and industry-leading customer satisfaction and service. Please contact us with any issues you may have. You’ll hear from us by June 10. 5 115 Habit Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood
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Nobody’s Listening Video 5 115 Habit
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Teach to Learn 5 116–117 Habit Seek First to Understand, Then to Be Understood
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