1. WELLNESS INTEGRATING NEEDS!
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“TRANSFORMATIONAL LOVE”
Love―Part II

2. There are different kinds of LOVE
●PHILIA love --friendship

3. ● EROS love
based on the attractiveness and the desirability of the one loved, based on self interest
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4. AGAPE love Loves in spite of the one who is loved Is a generous love
Without self interest
Self-sacrificing love

5. TRANSFORMATIONAL LOVE
Difference between a Self-Centered Love and a Self-Giving Love

6. Reaching Out Love

7. Love is Unconditional

8. Transformational Steps

9. Identify self-centered love 
Admit and confess self- centered love 
Pray that God will remove this spirit 

10. Ask God to show you what is the opposite of self-centered love
Choose self-giving love 
Act! Do loving deeds even when you don’t feel like it

11. A Love Assignment
Go tell someone who needs to hear the words, “I love you.”
Who is that person? _________

12. Group Discussion “I remember when I saw love in action…”
What do you do to show love to a poor person, widow, orphan, a lonely person? Are you willing to be intentional and do a loving act for an unfortunate person?
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13. Group Discussion
3. As a very busy person, what quality intentional love actions can you quickly do even in a short time to make others feel special and loved?
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14. Group Discussion
4. How can we teach our children, teens, and grandchildren to show unselfish love?
5. How can we love a selfish person, the person who abused or hurt us?
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15. Personal Reflection What loving acts do my family need from me?
How can I show love to people at my workplace, for a lonely church member, or church family or in my neighborhood? Who are they? What shall I do for them?
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16. Personal Reflection
3. How can I show love to someone I’m currently at odds with or just don’t want to love? What is my plan?
4. How can our family play the “Love Game” within the family and for others?
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17. Personal Reflection
5. How can we continue to love the person who cannot return love, is an outcast, or is of a hated tribe or street gang? In which way did Jesus continue to love those who did not love back?
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18. WELLNESS INTEGRATING NEEDS!
WIN!
“TRANSFORMATIONAL LOVE”
The End
©2009, Marriage & Family Commitment Inc.
Authors: Drs. John, Millie & Wes Youngberg
Illustration: Ing. Eliseo Vergara Mtz.