1. Leading by Example and Inspiring Greatness in Others
Daniel Lobb, CPLP | TRP Enterprises, Inc.
© 2018 TRP Enterprises, Inc.

2. Foundational Skill
Stay Positive, Productive and Effective No matter what the circumstances!

3. Session Objectives Inspire others. Lead by example.
Explore the impact of a positive mindset, and the consequences of victim thinking.
Develop the resiliency that inspires others to move through adversity.

4. EQ OR IQ ? Objectives Emotional Quotient Intelligence Quotient
(Emotional Intelligence)

5. What percentage of job success is determined by our IQ?75
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Optimism, support, seeing stress as an opportunity.
Shawn Achor, The Happiness Advantage

6. The Victim Mentality
If things are going wrong, or badly, or not to my liking, then someone is to blame.
It is necessary to identify the persons, circumstances, or sources of why things are not as I think they should be.
Blame must be determined and accepted by the wrongdoer, and things must be made right.
I am justified in being emotionally upset. Neither growth nor learning result from the bad things that happen to me.

7. Totally Responsible Person
Everything that happens to me provides me with
Opportunities
For
Learning
And
Growth.
I cannot blame anyone else for how I feel, what I do, or the attitude I choose.

8. Opportunity
Stimulus
Reaction 13

9. Opportunity
CHOICE
STIMULUS RESPONSE

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11. Awareness
AWARENESS A L O W S
STIMULUS CHOICE RESPONSE

12. The Spectrum
We are here
Victim Mentality
TRP

13. ELEMENTS of Self-Responsibility
Everything that happens to me provides me with opportunities for learning and growth. 19

14. ELEMENTS of Self-Responsibility
1. Everything that happens to me provides me with opportunities for learning and growth.
2. I cannot blame anyone else for how I feel, what I do, or the attitude I choose. 19

15. ELEMENTS of Self-Responsibility
1. Everything that happens to me provides me with opportunities for learning and growth.
2. I cannot blame anyone else for how I feel, what I do, or the attitude I choose.
3. I shall seek no exceptions to this belief… even when I’m not at fault. 19

16. Mary Barra
Chief Executive Officer, General Motors
“We accept responsibility for our mistakes and commit to doing everything in our power to prevent this from happening again.”
Mary Barra assumed the role of CEO on January 1, Do you know what kind of year GM had last year (2014)? Recalled nearly 30 million vehicles, mostly safety-related defects. To put that in perspective, GM’s annual production is about 9.3 million vehicles was a tough year, and Mary “inherited” problems for which she is now accountable as the head of the company.

17. What does TRP mean to you?
Who is a personal role model for you, either now, or someone who has served that role in the past? 19

18. Moments of Choice Character Response Moment of Choice Stimulus
Positive
Awareness Develops
Negative
Character
Stimulus
Reaction

19. THANK YOU VA SHRM! Updated Slides: TRPNET.COM/SHRM
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