1. Moving from Entitlement to Ownership

2. Why are the most privileged kids in the country the most depressed and anxious?

3. These teens are unhappy, lacking basic skills, have an over-dependence on others, and are constantly bored

4. Successful on the outside and incredibly fragile on the inside

5. Kids who are indulged, pressured, and micromanaged are EMPTY

6. In our attempt to keep up with cultural norms, we ring the last bit of performance out of our kids and schedule them within an inch of their lives

7. Parental intervention instead of support leads to an insufficient sense of Self

8. It’s far more than simply spoiling them
It’s far more than simply spoiling them. We deny their development of Self

9. Authoritative Parenting
“We can work it out.”
Appropriate and clear expectations, high validation and high support

10. “…because the Lord disciplines the one he loves, and he chastens everyone he accepts as his son.“
--Hebrews 12:6

11. Parenting is an 18 year process of De-parenting

12. They need a job starting at about age two!

13. Use the word “NO” early and often!

14. Saying “NO” reinforces the concept of “Doing Without”

15. Emotional control is essential.
Colossians 3:21
Fathers do not exasperate your children or they will become discouraged.
Emotional control is essential.