1. November 14, 2017 Entry Task: Target:
What qualities do you want in a good date (person you are dating)?
Target:
Identify the differences between boys and girls when it comes to dating.

2. Tip of the Day

3. Dating, Relationships and Marriage
Ground rules?
What should they include?

4. Proper Dating Be respectful Might be uncomfortable for people
Let me know ahead of time if you need to leave for any reason

5. Brainstorm: Why do people date?
List 5-10 reasons why people date
You have two minutes

7. Differences – He said she said
Danny
Sandy
“Horny” details
Romantic
Crazy for me
Cute as can be
Did you get very far?
Does he have a car?
Saved her life, she nearly drown
Showed off, splashing around
Made out under the dock
Stayed up until 10:00 o’clock
Friendly down in the sand
Friendly holding my hand
She was good if you know what I mean
Sweet just to the Tee
Does she have a friend?
How much dough did he spend

8. Tip of the Day!

9. Brainstorm: Compare dating over the generations.…

10. Has Dating Changed? How? Explain
How dating has changed over the generations
You have two minutes

11. How has dating changed
Now with your seat partner, share your responses and add any reasons people date that you didn’t have you’re your sheet.
Share out

12. Differences 1. Guys always asked the girls out.
2. Sex is more common in relationships.
3. Age differences.
4. Cheating has become more common
5. Online dating
6. Meet the girls somewhere. Don’t meet at house
7. Children?
Any more?

14. Why do people date?
Dating purposes & types of love

15. AGENDA… The Purposes of Dating Types of Love Ladder of Love
Love or Infatuation?

16. The Purposes of Dating

17. Socialization:
To develop appropriate social skills
To practice getting along with others in different settings

18. Recreation:
To have fun and enjoy the companionship of others
To try new and different activities

19. Mate Selection: To see others in many different settings
To compare the personality and characteristics of many people
To determine if you could live…for the rest of your life with this person

20. Types of Love Romantic Love Sexual Love Pragmatic Love Platonic Love
Puppy Love
Sexual Love
The intimate expression of love.
Pragmatic Love
A rational, reasoning kind of love.
Platonic Love
The spiritual and intellectual relationship between a man and a woman.
Companionship Love
A love typically found in good friendships.
Altruistic Love
Selfless love or concern for the spouse.
Manic Love
A crazy, possessive, jealous kind of love.
Self-Love
An egotistic, narcissistic kind of love.
In an ideal marital relationship, you would experience all types of love, everyday. However, until you are married, you can still experience most types of love with a variety of people.

21. The Ladder of Love

22. Ladder of Love STARTS AT BOTTOM (Self Love)
Mature love for others
Love for children
Love for the same/opposite sex
Love for someone the same sex, older
Love for same sex friend
First love outside the family
Love of other relatives
Love for secondary caregiver
Love for primary caregiver
Self-love
Love for humankind, very unselfish love.
Unselfish love with ability to love without expecting anything in return.
Begins with interest in the other/same sex and continues throughout life.
Role model and exemplified what you wanted to become.
Close friend of the same age and sex.
You had fun with this person and loved him for the times shared.
Love of a relative which brought a special sense of security.
This person met your needs and cared for you. Usually your father.
Your primary caregiver (usually mother).
Until you love yourself, you cannot truly love another.

23. Love vs. Infatuation Grows slowly Long lasting Trust More realistic
More thoughtful
Happens quickly
Short-lived
Physical thrills
Jealousy
Rush to marry

24. LOVE INFATUATION Love grows over time Known under many circumstances
Learn all characteristics of the person
Other person centered
Happens suddenly
Under one circumstance
Know only a few character traits
Self centered

25. LOVE INFATUATION Only for one person
Face problems and try to solve them
Physical attraction is a small part
Endures
Can wait for marriage
More than one person
Problems are glossed over
May be based only on physical attraction
Doesn’t want to wait for anything
May end suddenly
Seen as deprivation