1. Around the Water Cooler… Don’t Let Small Talk Become BIG talk
Cari L. Corley and Shelia Kirven
2018 Choctaw University Symposium

2. Halito!
A little birdie told me…

3. THE GOSSIP GAME

6. “Both research and the experiences of those who have been the targets of gossip argue that gossip can hurt relationships and create a climate of fear and resentment, all of which feeds stress like humidity feeds a storm. And workplace stress, multiple studies show, causes problems ranging from a decline in productivity to a rise in illness and absenteeism.”
Psychology Today

7. Dangers of Gossip in the Workplace
Erosion of trust
Lost productivity and wasted time
Increased anxiety among employees as rumors circulate without clear information as to what is and isn’t fact
Division among employees as people take sides
Hurt feelings and reputations
Attrition due to good employees leaving the company because of an unhealthy work environment

9. What if the gossip is about you???
Regulate your negative emotions
Expand your perspective
Practice self-compassion, and even forgiveness
De-identify from the situation
Consider how to respond
Give it time
Focus on what’s going right
Remember that you are not alone
-The Happiness Track: How to Apply the Science of Happiness to Accelerate Your Success (HarperOne, 2016)

10. Always remember that our minds like to cling to the negative
Always remember that our minds like to cling to the negative. Shut out the negative talk.
Protect your reputation and integrity.
Have high standards.
Let your actions speak for you.

11. What If…
-Steve Marah

13. “It’s a fact of life: Where there are groups, there will be gossip
“It’s a fact of life: Where there are groups, there will be gossip. It’s how we’re wired. But in the workplace, what’s natural can also be harmful- to morale, productivity, and careers.”
Psychology Today

15. “Today will never come again. Be a blessing. Be a friend
“Today will never come again. Be a blessing. Be a friend. Encourage someone. Take time to care. Let your words heal, and not wound.”

16. RESOURCES RESOURCES -Psychology Today - www.frankiejohn.com-
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17. Yakoke!