1. Allan L. Beane, Ph.D. www.bullyfree.com abeane@bullyfree.com

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3. To talk with you about a serious problem! Your school cares about you.
Why Am I Here?
To talk with you about a serious problem!
Your school cares about you.
Your school needs your help.
You hear it and see it when the adults don’t – it’s done in secret.
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4. What is the problem? Students Mistreating Students Bullying
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5. Your school hates bullying. I hate bullying.
I believe you hate bullying.
You have good hearts.
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6. “Treat others the way you want to be treated.”
I believe in the Golden Rule!
What is the Golden Rule?
“Treat others the way you
want to be treated.”
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7. Why Dr. Beane developed the Bully Free Program
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11. Forrest Gump Movie www.bullyfree.com
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12. Forrest Gump (Paramount Pictures, 1994)
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13. Forrest Gump Memories Mistreatment is remembered! Apple lesson
Styrofoam plate and skewer lesson
Paper lesson
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14. Kindness is remembered!
Would you say Jenny obeyed the Golden Rule?
Would you say Jenny had a pretty heart?
Voice of kindness
Voice of acceptance
Voice of courage
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15. Kindness is remembered!
Jenny obeyed the Golden Rule!
Voice of kindness
Voice of acceptance
Voice of courage
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16. What kind of memories are you creating?
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17. No one deserves to be mistreated.
Why was Forrest mistreated?
Important Truth!
No one deserves to be mistreated.
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18. Would you rather be an “apple person”
or an
“onion person?”
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19. Onion People … Do not have the Golden Rule inside of them.
Make others cry.
Do not make others feel good.
Do not make others feel healthy.
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20. Apple People … Have the Golden Rule inside of them.
A core value we should all have.
They help others feel good and feel healthy.
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21. Definition of Bullying
Bullying is when one or more powerful persons hurt someone’s body, feelings or things and/or frighten them on purpose again and again.
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22. What does bullying look like? www.bullyfree.com
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23. Hitting, slapping, elbowing, and shouldering (slamming)
Pushing and shoving
Kicking
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24. Cramming someone into his/her locker
Pinching
Cramming someone into his/her locker
Stealing or damaging property/belongings
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25. Holding someone so they can’t move Name-calling
Insulting remarks and put-downs
Repeated teasing
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26. Whispering about someone behind their back
Racist remarks
Making someone afraid
Whispering about someone behind
their back
Turning someone’s best friend against them
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27. Gossiping and spreading mean and hurtful rumors and lies about someone
Embarrassing someone - making him or her look foolish and silly
Making mean faces at someone and turning your back to someone in a mean way
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28. Writing mean things on the wall about someone
Not letting someone play or sit with you and your friends
Mean and hurtful notes passed around or sent to someone
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29. Promising to be mean to someone
Cyber bullying
Messages that hurt or make someone afraid
Text messages
Internet
Etc.
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30. Shut your eyes!
If you know someone who is mistreated every day at school, raise your hand.
If you feel like you are mistreated almost every day at school, raise your hand.
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31. Why must bullying stop? Makes children sick.
Makes children who watch feel bad and sad.
Sometimes bullied children hurt themselves.
Sometimes bullied children hurt others.
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32. The movie Mask! www.bullyfree.com
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33. Mask (Universal City Studios, Inc. 1985)
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34. Did the student in this movie obey the Golden Rule when he said,
“Hey kid, why don’t you take your mask off?”
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35. Guard Your Tongue! www.bullyfree.com
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36. Lessons about the Tongue
Toothpaste lesson
Banana lesson
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37. But you can: You can’t take back what you said or did.
Say, “I was wrong.”
Say, “I am sorry.”
Say, “Please forgive me.”
Be kind to the person.
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38. Did the students who laughed at what was said to Rocky obey the
Golden Rule?
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39. Guard Your Heart! www.bullyfree.com
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40. Guard Your Heart Lessons
Bottle of water lesson
Coke can lesson
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41. Bystanders are Powerful!
Don’t laugh or join in when someone is mistreated.
Don’t ignore it when someone is mistreated.
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42. Report it! www.bullyfree.com Copyright May 2005, Allan L. Beane, Ph.D.
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43. High School Students Know What You Should Do
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44. Snowflakes are powerful when they stick together.
They can stop a big truck!
They can shut down an airport!
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45. The Good News is. . . IF YOU ARE BEING BULLIED:
We know how to help you and we can teach you to help yourself!
IF YOU ARE A BULLY:
We know how to help you stop mistreating others!
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46. IF YOU ARE BYSTANDER (WITNESS TO BULLYING):
You are powerful.
You don’t have to laugh.
You don’t have to ignore it. You can REPORT IT!
You and your friends can take a stand against bullying.
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47. I challenge you!! I dare you!! www.bullyfree.com
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