1. Three Stages of a Relationship
All relationships go through these stages. Whether it is friendship or a romantic relationship, one can expect to see these stages.

2. Stage #1: The Sparkle (Infatuation)
To begin this relationship you must be open and vulnerable
In the beginning, the person seems perfect for you
You can’t see enough of each other
Any lack of attention brings anxiety, fear, rejection, and/or jealousy
You don’t see the other person’s faults/imperfections

3. Stage #2: The Disillusionment
Begin to see the other person’s faults
Become irritable or competitive with each other
Thinking “maybe they aren’t as perfect as I thought”
One of the following may happen:
Come to grips with the imperfections (you accept who they are and are OK with that) OR
Withdrawal of affection and ending of relationship (you realize they are not the person for you)

4. Stage #3: Mutual Acceptance (Mature Love)
See and accept the flaws in the other person
Can be yourself and feel secure without jealousy
Trust has been built over time.
Can be adventuresome and spontaneous
Affirms your self worth (they make you feel positive about yourself)