1. THE FUNDAMENTALS OF PRICE NEGOTIATION
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2. OUTLINE DIAGNOSIS DETACHMENT CURIOSITY ABUNDANCE HOW TO SAY NO
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3. Diagnosis - DETACHMENT - CURIOSITY - ABUNDANCE - HOW TO SAY NO
HOW TO BE DETACHED
Develop alternatives.
Objective benchmarks.
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4. Diagnosis - DETACHMENT - CURIOSITY - ABUNDANCE - HOW TO SAY NO
ALTERNATIVES
Things that you can do without the client in question.
Plan B.
The more alternatives = the more detached you feel.
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5. Diagnosis - DETACHMENT - CURIOSITY - ABUNDANCE - HOW TO SAY NO
ALTERNATIVES
Scenario 1: You are negotiating with your biggest client.
Scenario 2: You are negotiating with 10 clients. How do you feel?
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6. Diagnosis - DETACHMENT - CURIOSITY - ABUNDANCE - HOW TO SAY NO
ALTERNATIVES
Good news: It’s totally in your power to develop alternatives.
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7. Diagnosis - DETACHMENT - CURIOSITY - ABUNDANCE - HOW TO SAY NO
ALTERNATIVES
If you are that dependent on any one client, no negotiation over price is going to be easy.
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8. Diagnosis - DETACHMENT - CURIOSITY - ABUNDANCE - HOW TO SAY NO
ALTERNATIVES
Are you thinking about your alternatives strategically? Or are you falling into the same pattern of closing a deal and moving on?
This is not new advice.
We fall back into the same trap.
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9. TWO TYPES OF ALTERNATIVES
External: Other clients or other ways to spend your time if the deal doesn’t go through.
Internal: Other people in the client’s organization who could influence the final deal.
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10. INTERNAL ALTERNATIVES
Developing relationships with other people higher up in the organization.
It could be the end users, or someone who will be affected by the solution/product that you are selling.
This will significantly affect how detached you feel.
They may influence the way the negotiation happens.
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11. INTERNAL ALTERNATIVES
Gives us a feeling of security.
It could be the end users, or someone who will be affected by the solution/product that you are selling.
This will significantly affect how detached you feel.
They may influence the way the negotiation happens.
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12. WHY WE DON’T DEVELOP OUR INTERNAL ALTERNATIVES
We don’t prioritize developing these relationships.
We don’t know how.
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13. Diagnosis - DETACHMENT - CURIOSITY - ABUNDANCE - HOW TO SAY NO
One champion is almost never enough to stop internal detractors from pushing back on the cost of our product/solution/service.
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14. Diagnosis - DETACHMENT - CURIOSITY - ABUNDANCE - HOW TO SAY NO
OBJECTIVE BENCHMARKS
Negotiating price is so difficult because it often turns into a battle of wills.
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15. Diagnosis - DETACHMENT - CURIOSITY - ABUNDANCE - HOW TO SAY NO
OBJECTIVE BENCHMARKS
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16. Diagnosis - DETACHMENT - CURIOSITY - ABUNDANCE - HOW TO SAY NO
OBJECTIVE BENCHMARKS
You want to look for benchmarks that you can point to, to show that your price, without a discount, is fair.
This HAS to be something persuasive to the buyer.
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17. Diagnosis - DETACHMENT - CURIOSITY - ABUNDANCE - HOW TO SAY NO
OBJECTIVE BENCHMARKS
In my situation with Tom, I had extremely clear benchmarks:
The price I was charging other clients.
My pricing sheet.
All of the rates they had paid in the past.
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18. Diagnosis - DETACHMENT - CURIOSITY - ABUNDANCE - HOW TO SAY NO
OBJECTIVE BENCHMARKS
Having those objective benchmarks allowed me to be very clear about what was fair and remain detached.
This allows you to pursue a conversation in a curious and problem solving way.
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19. OBJECTIVE BENCHMARKS $1500 $1000 $500 Market Price
Price charged to other clients
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20. Diagnosis - DETACHMENT - CURIOSITY - ABUNDANCE - HOW TO SAY NO
OBJECTIVE BENCHMARKS
Create a price sheet based on those standards and bring it to your meetings.
It will totally transform the “me” vs “you” dynamic.
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