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April 17-20, 2013 Illinois Great Rivers Conference Rev. Michelle Foster, presenter
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Psalm 119:10-16 from The Message
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Putting This Conversation in Context
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Boundary Violation – any violation of sacred trust …It is not wrong because it violates norms. It is wrong because it violates people.
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Sexual Misconduct
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Sexual Harassment
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Sexual Abuse Sexual Harassment Sexual Misconduct
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Sexual harassment Sexual Abuse Sexual Misconduct Sexualized Behavior
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Power and Vulnerability
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Video Power and Vulnerability Power and Vulnerability
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Questions for Reflection
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Power and Vulnerability Dating & Friendships
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Video Power and Vulnerability Dating and Friendships
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Power and Vulnerability Gifts Dating & Friendships
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Power and Vulnerability Gifts Transference Dating & Friendships
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The Boundary Formula VP BV BC BD BD = Boundary Drift BC = Boundary Crossing BV = Boundary Violation T = Transgressions T
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Video Power and Vulnerability The Growth of Social Media
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In what ways do you use media in your ministry setting?
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The Boundary Formula VP BV BC BD BD = Boundary Drift BC = Boundary Crossing BV = Boundary Violation T = Transgressions T
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Perception Privacy Personal Feedback
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The Pastor, The Internet, AND Pornography/Obscenity
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Pornography – sexually explicit material that portrays violence, abuse, coercion, domination, humiliation or degradation for the purpose of arousal Obscenity – hard core porn pornographic material that is beyond what majority of society will tolerate
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* Deterioration of relationships * Detrimental to emotional well being * Harmful to social demeanor * Adverse understanding of healthy sexual relationships NOT JUST A MANS ISSUE!
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1.What are your personal markers to alert you when your energy and spirit are low? 2.What needs do you have right now? 3.What needs are not being met?
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Shadow Self by Carl Jung
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Conflict Danger + Opportunity
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M – meditation E – exercise D – diet S – sleep S - support
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Counseling Pastoral Care Visits Dual Relationships Technology Self-Care
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If someone is drowning, secure yourself before you swim out to save them. Otherwise both of you will drown.
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Rev. Michelle Foster mfoster@wnccumc.net 336-442-3844
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