1. Attitudes that affect others Proper attitudes (2)

2. Self-controlled, disciplined
Mastering your desires and passions
At the foundation of everything we do and don’t do. Every sin we commit involves self-control.
Cain warned – Genesis 4:6-7
In the Bible – Galatians 5:22-23, 2 Peter 1:5-7 Acts 24:25, 1 Corinthians 9:24-27, Romans 6:12-13
It can prevent regret because of something we say or do Discipline keeps us moving forward Cause us do to the unpleasant but necessary

3. Alertness, soberness
Attentive or perceptive to what is going on around us Soberness, vigilance, watchful
Jesus warned – Matt. 26:41
In the Bible – Romans 12:3, 1 Cor. 16:13, 1 Peter 1:13, 4:7, 5:8
Can make us aware of the needs and conditions of others so as to proceed with caution – i.e. saying the right thing, opportune time, etc.

4. Don’t forget social media!!!
Tactfulness
Careful in our conversation and conduct so as not to unnecessarily offend
Joseph – Genesis 41:33-46 Paul - Philemon
In the Bible – Matthew 10:16, Eph. 5:15, Prov. 15:18, James 1:19, Colossians 4:6, Jude 22, 1 Peter 3:15
When we care it governs what we say and how we say it. Our goal is what is best, not just to win
Don’t forget social media!!!

5. Easier to share the gospel with others
Confidence
Assurance, certainty. We know what we are doing or talking about. NOT arrogance!
Paul – Acts 28:31 2 Timothy 1:12, 4:7-8
Coupled with humility!
In the Bible – 1 John 2:28, 5:14, Romans 8:37-39 Philippians 1:27-28
Confidence in God can lead to confidence in other things It builds trust Confidence in others as well
Easier to share the gospel with others

6. Sincerity, genuineness
Without pretense or hypocrisy. Authentic
Everything in our life needs to be with sincerity!
Paul – 2 Corinthians 1:12
In the Bible – 1 Peter 2:1, James 3:17, Philippians 1:9-10, Ephesians 6:5, 1 John 3:18
This helps with those whom we have established influence! Builds trust and credibility Easier to deal address problems

7. Accountable to God causes one to think of others!
Responsibility
To be accountable and dependable. Not flippant!
Jesus – John 10:11-14
In the Bible – Genesis 3:13-14 Matthew 25:14-30 Romans 14:12, Matt. 5:37, Luke 17:10 1 Corinthians 4:2
Holds himself accountable instead of passing the blame Realizes that decisions have consequences that affect others
Accountable to God causes one to think of others!

8. Calmness
One whose state of mind is free of panic, agitation or disturbance. Demonstrates one in control.
Jesus – Matthew 8:23-27 Matthew 11:28-30
In the Bible – Ephesians 4:26, James 1:19, Proverbs 14:30, 15:1, 17:27 Philippians 4:6
Keeps us from jumping to conclusions Can keep situations from flaring up or getting out of control Peacemakers!

9. Optimism
Anticipation of favorable results in a given situation
Assuming the best in others
The qualities we have discussed in this lesson will lend to a hopeful disposition

10. Matthew 5:16, our lights shining may cause others to glorify God!
We have noted today both characteristics of Christians AND the attitudes behind them.
Matthew 5:16, our lights shining may cause others to glorify God!

11. How does your attitude affect others?