1. Mediation – writing a letter/email giving advice
January 2019
Mediation – writing a letter/ giving advice

2. Dear Mary It is very nice to read you but I am sad with your situation.
Thank you for you . It was great to hear from you. I am sorry to hear that you and John are going through a rough patch.

3. If I were you, I wouldn’t publish your feelings in a social media, try not to have another relationship at the same time and try to understand what is happening.
If I were in your situation I would try to avoid writing about my feelings on any social media. You never know how they may be interpreted. I can understand that you may feel tempted to look else where for affection, but believe that there is a solution.

4. There are others that aren’t be able to manage the compromise.
There may be others who are not able to handle a steady relationship.

5. We have been a long time without talking!
We haven’t been in touch for some time!

6. Where is this in the text provided?
My advice is try not to go out so often with your friends because he is very jealous. You should spend more time with him and make more things together.
If I were you, I would try to limit the time I spend with my friends. Perhaps Peter is feeling lonely and would like to spend more time with you. At times we can misinterpret signs, he may not be jealous, he may simply be asking you for attention.
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7. I am happy to have some news from you and I am aware that you are worried about the future of your relationship with your partner. I can understand your fears and insecurities.
I was very happy to hear from you however, I was very surprised to hear that you are worried about your relationship with Peter. I hope that everything turns out for the best but I do understand you fears and insecurities.

8. I am writing with reference you your letter in which you explained me the problems you are having with your partner lately. Through this letter I wish to give you my advice.
Thank you for your letter. It was a pleasure to hear from you after such a long time. I must say how sorry I am that you are going through issues in your relationship with Peter. I hope my advice is of some help and can make your decision a little easier.

9. If you talk about the troubles face him off, you maybe can reach a success. My advice is start with small things, but if you finally decide that there’s no solution, face him don’t leave him by a text message or by facebook it’s not very elegant and of course don’t wait until other person appears, give to yourself more value, you can live on your oun. Don’t do as those people who he acting as they are working and they are on a Pub or with other friends.
I truly believe that you may be able to sort things out if you talk about feelings openly. Take baby steps and give each other reachable goals. But relationships end, it is a fact. If this is your case, be honest and open up to him. Tell him that you do not feel as you did towards him.