1. CONFLICT RESOLUTION
2ND GRADE SEL LESSON

2. WHAT IS CONFLICT? Is a part of life It is normal It is NOT BULLYING
Disagreement or problem that happens between two or more people

3. Conflict doesn’t have to be…
A competition
Winning and losing

4. Conflict Styles

5. FORCE
Aggressive
Argues
Yells
Threatens
Physical

6. GIVE IN Prevents fights Passive Goes along to make others happy
Follower

7. AVOID
Runs away
Distracts
Leaves the room

8. DO THOSE WORK?
Sometimes! BUT…. Handling problems by force, giving in or avoiding can create other problems!

9. OTHER CONFLICT STYLES

10. Compromise
Gives a little
Gets a little
Listener

11. Sort out the Problem Work it out Find ways to solve the problem
Helps compromise

12. 5 STEPS to RESOLVE CONFLICT

13. STEP 1: COOL OFF!

15. When you are angry, your brain struggles with coming up with solutions!

16. STEP 2: Share, Check, Listen

17. TONE!!!!!!

19. Asking for Change: I messages
I FEEL___________________________________________
WHEN___________________________________________
I WOULD LIKE___________________________________
SO I CAN________________________________________

20. Asking for Change: ACTIVE LISTENING RESPONSE
YOU SOUND_____________________________________
BECAUSE_________________________________________
NEXT TIME I WILL ____________________________________
AND I HOPE_______________________________________

21. STEP 3: TAKE RESPONSIBILITY

23. STEP 4: BRAINSTORM

25. STEP 5: CHOOSE!