1. Meeting People and Relationships
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2. What makes you comfortable or uncomfortable to date or be friends?
Is there a characteristic that you think is important to be a friend or date someone?
What are some things that are not important or do not matter?
What is the difference between:
A friendship
A dating relationship

3. What kind of relationships are there?
Acquaintance
Former friend
Close friend
Neighbor
Colleague
Old friend
Best friend
Partner
Classmate
Roommate
Contact
Teammate

4. Vocabulary Commitment Loyalty Generosity Sensitivity Honesty Sincerity
Humor
Tolerance
Kindness
Trust
Love
Understanding

5. Relationship Video

6. Reflection
In groups, describe what went wrong and the kind of guy and girl there was in the video.
Use the vocabulary words that we learned to describe the situation.
“Due to his ______________________, he lacks _____________________; and therefore, he ___________________________.”
“She had ____________________ which allowed her to __________________.”

7. What Makes You Compatible?
What does compatibility mean and why is it important?
Don’t forget to have examples.

8. “Used to” and “Be used to”
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9. What is the difference? Used to Be used to
Expresses an activity or situation in the past but not anymore
(Subject) used to (infinitive).
(Subject) didn’t use to (infinitive).
Be used to
Expresses what is usual or normal, followed by a gerund (-ing)
I’m used to flying.
He isn’t used to cooking every night.

10. What is your personality?
Everyone has a difference kind of personality.
Personality is an important factor in knowing yourself and who you are best attracted to.
Myers-Briggs is famous for its assessments of people.
Using your phone, go to
What personality did you get?

12. Personality Type – Myers-Briggs Test
Showcases the following distinctions:
Introversion versus Extroversion
Sensing versus Intuition
Thinking versus Feeling
Judging versus Perceiving

13. Personality Perspective
In your groups, determine some common characteristics that you would like for your future spouse or close friend and why you feel this way.
Try to find something that you all have in common in regard to someone you would like to be a friend with or date.
Related to your personality, why do you feel this way?