1. Christian Chapel, Tulsa, OK
RFK April 2017 Training
Christian Chapel, Tulsa, OK
Introducing TBRI Principles
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3. CHILDREN FROM HARD PLACES AND BRAIN DEVELOPMENT
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4. Trauma-Induced Changes
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5. TRUSTING RELATIONSHIPS HEAL THE BRAIN
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7. Which is Your Strength?
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8. CORRECTING! Empowering Connecting
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9. CONNECTING! Empowering Correcting
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10. “They could if they wanted to!”
Willful disobedience?
“They could if they wanted to!”
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11. Increase Frustration! Increase Resistance!
ADULT CHILD
“POWER STRUGGLES”
Increase Frustration! Increase Resistance!
Enforce More Rules Oppositional Behaviors!
“DOWNWARD SPIRALS”
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12. Survival Behavior ADULT CHILD “FELT SAFETY”
COMPASSIONATE UNDERSTANDING AFFIRM FEELINGS
REDUCED FRUSTRATION RECOGNIZE FEARS
GIVE VOICE USE WORDS
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13. GIVING VOICE
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14. When you see negative behaviors Encourage child by saying
“Tell me what you need.”
“How can I help you?”
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15. GIVING VOICE TELLS THE CHILD:
What I Say Matters
My Needs Matter
I Matter
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16. TBRI® Connecting Principles
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17. Mindfulness Strategies
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18. Engagement Strategies
Provide practical tools for relating to children in meaningful ways
Facilitates healthy relationships
Safe, healthy ways to connect with children in a language they understand
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19. Engagement Strategies
Valuing Eye Contact
Authoritative Voice Tone
Behavioral Matching
Playful Interaction
Appropriate/Healthy Touch
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20. Empowering Principles

21. Physiological Strategies
Meet internal needs
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23. Ecological - Environmental StrategiesOR
HOW DO WE BUILD
TRUST?
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24. Self-Regulation via the Senses
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25. TBRI® Correcting Principles
Proactive Strategies Responsive Strategies

26. CONNECTED CONTENT CHANGED BEHAVIOR
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27. Proactive Strategies
Practice and teach positive social skills during play
PLAY changes the brain.
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28. Proactive Strategy----CHOICES Giving choices gives a child control
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29. Proactive Strategy----Teach Camp Values
TBRI calls them Life Value Terms:
*No Hurts
*Use your Words
*With Respect
*Gentle and Kind
*Asking or Telling
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31. The IDEAL Response Immediate Direct EFFICIENT – Levels of Response™
Action-Based
Leveled at the Behavior
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32. Which part of the IDEAL Response is most challenging for you?
Which part of the IDEAL Response is easiest for you?
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33. Manipulation and Control
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34. Remember: Negative behaviors meet a need.
Predictability and control are critical!
Give appropriate control.
Give up control for relationship.
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35. Levels of Response Level 1: Playful Engagement
Level 2: Structured Engagement
Level 3: Calming Engagement
Level 4: Protective Engagement
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36. Level 1: Playful Engagement
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37. Level 2: Structured Engagement
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38. Level 3: Calming Engagement
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40. Level 4: Protective Engagement
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