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THE 3 R’s of PARENTING How to raise Respectful, Responsible, Resilient Kids! Deborah Gilboa, M.D.
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If you could wave a magic wand...
Which behavior would you change at home?
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BEHAVIOR CHANGE Change the reaction.
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YOU NEED A PLAN 1. Pick a behavior. 2. Decide on consequences.
3. Meet as a family. 4. Stick to it!
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Methods: CHANGE “HOW- TO” Key ingredient: CONSISTENCY. Distraction
Separation Non-response Losing priveleges Contracts Key ingredient: CONSISTENCY.
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3 R’s of PARENTING Respect Responsibility Resilience
That’s my kid! Responsibility Build a great work ethic. Resilience Manage difficulty.
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RESPECT Tone of voice. Titles of respect. Eye contact Body Language
Secret Code Negotiating Parental privacy 3 sentences; amazing results!
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RESPONSIBILITY How can I help? Chores Homework Practice
Community service One work ethic; sentences
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RESILIENCE “I’ll be really interested to see what you do!”
Mistakes teach resilience. Praise the process. Let life teach the lesson. Choices, within limits. Encourage some risk-taking. Reach out for resources! “I’ll be really interested to see what you do!”
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