1. PHYSICAL ABUSE

2. VERBAL PSYCHOLOGICAL ABUSE

3. SEXUAL ABUSE

4. Punching
Shoving
Slapping
Kicking
Pinching
Hair-Pulling
Burning
Scratching
Biting
Strangling
Throwing something at you such as a phone, book, shoe or plate.
Pushing or pulling you.
Grabbing your clothing.
Using a gun, knife, box cutter, bat, mace or other weapon.
Smacking your bottom.
Forcing you to have sex or perform a sexual act.
Grabbing your face to make you look at them.
Grabbing you to prevent you from leaving or to force you to go somewhere.

5. Criticizing
Swearing
Yelling
Extreme Jealousy
Threats
Humiliation
Possessiveness
Isolating someone from family and friends
Damaging someone’s possessions
Searching through someone’s locker, notes, , phone, or other possessions without permission
Insisting on making all the decisions
Giving orders
Calling you names and putting you down.
Intentionally embarrassing you in public.
Telling you what to do and wear.
Using online communities or cell phones to control, intimidate or humiliate you.
Blaming your actions for their abusive or unhealthy behavior.
Stalking you.
Threatening to commit suicide to keep you from breaking up with them.
Threatening to harm you, your pet or people you care about.
Making you feel guilty or immature when you don’t consent to sexual activity.
Threatening to expose your secrets.
Starting rumors about you.

6. Unwanted touching
Treating someone like a sex object
Name-calling with sexual phrases
Demanding sex after a violent incident
Forcing you to engage in prostitution or pornography
Forcing you to have sex with others besides your partner
Insisting on anything sexual that frightens or hurts you
Refusing to use safe sex practices
Preventing you from using birth control
Controlling your decisions about pregnancy Withholding sex as a form of control
Videotaping or photographing sexual acts and posting it without your permission

7. Punching

8. Shoving

9. Slapping

10. Kicking

11. Pinching

12. Hair-Pulling

13. Burning

14. Scratching

15. Biting

16. Strangling

17. Throwing something at you

18. Pushing or pulling you

19. Grabbing your clothing

20. Using a weapon

21. Smacking your bottom

22. Forcing sex or a sexual act upon you

23. Grabbing your face

24. Preventing you from leaving or going somewhere

26. Unwanted touching

27. Treating someone like an object

28. Name calling with sexual phrases

29. Demanding sex after a violent incident

30. Forcing to engage in prostitution

31. Forcing you to have sex with other people

32. Insisting on sexual sayings/gestures that scare/hurt you

33. Refusing to use protection during sex

34. Preventing you from using birth control

35. Controlling decisions about pregnancy

36. Withholding sex as control

37. Videotaping sexual acts and posting

39. Criticizing

40. Swearing

41. Yelling

42. Extreme jealousy

43. Threats

44. Humiliation

45. Possessiveness

46. Isolating someone from friends and family

47. Damaging someone’s possessions

48. Searching another’s locker, phone, etc. w/o permission

49. Insisting on making all the decisions

50. Giving orders

51. Putting you down

52. Embarrassing you in public on purpose

53. Telling what to do and wear

54. Using social media to control, intimidate, or humiliate you

55. Blaming you for their unhealthy actions/behavior

56. Stalking you

57. Threatening suicide to prevent a breakup

58. Threatening you, a pet, or others important to you

59. Making you feel guilty for not engaging in sex

60. Starting rumors about you